How do you reply to this basic texts.

dynospectrum7 · 2021-06-22T05:22:00+00:00

Baby could be visiting her old ass granny in the nursing home an hour away on Tuesday.

You guys need to stop overthinking this shit and ask these girls when they are free. If the want to see you, trust me, they will.

ComplexProjection · 2021-06-22T07:21:09+00:00

Always answer from a place of abundance. How would you react to those texts if you’ve had 3 other girls waiting for you, and you still have to have time to lift, work and do your hobbies?

Batman-von-Pepe · 2021-06-22T05:03:19+00:00

If they show a willingness to reschedule then proceed but if none is made don't.

Case I: "I'll check my schedule and get back to you." Then if you are free get back to her with a time and place.

Case II: Not interested, next. Unless she initiates at a later date and is game.

quad-scientist · 2021-07-17T14:02:21+00:00

I provided some more detail in a nested comment but here's a good approach:

Me: We can grab a drink at 7, tuesday.

She: I’m busy that day, I am free on Friday.

You: Oh. Are you up to anything interesting and super cool on Tuesday?

Notice how you don't take her up on her offer. Instead you create an opportunity to write herself off and prompt her to impress you. You can tease her here or add jokes too.

Let this go on for a bit, and subtly judge her responses. A lot of women will then try to segue to setting a proper date some time here.

If she doesn't prompt you after a bit, then you do it yourself confidently. This is just not to seem needy.

You: Let's hang out Friday at 6, at xyz bar.

Me: We can grab a drink at 7, tuesday.

She: I’m busy that day.

If she's not offering to reschedule that's pretty negative. I wouldn't even bother replying to that, and doing so should make it really clear that you thought she was rude.

When she's ready to actually try to make an effort she can hit you up, or some time days later you can randomly say something unrelated and try to build attraction again, because if you're getting this response you obviously haven't done that.

DimFool · 2021-06-22T04:48:57+00:00

both seem cold. I wouldn't reply to either

HumbleTrees · 2021-09-28T09:45:49+00:00

My philosophy: there is no grey area. A girl is either "fuck yes" about you, or she's "fuck no". There is no uming and ahing, no guesswork. If you ask her out and she gives you some basic shit reply, she's either not interested or lacks basic conversation skills. Either way, she's not worth the effort. See yourself as screening the good from the bad. The interested ones will show it.

Punish3r_Ow · 2021-08-25T20:26:43+00:00

What has worked for me in the texting game : pretty simple Reply if she says something that you like , example : you ask her out and she's available , leave her on seen otherwise This creates a punishment and reward system and she will automatically after some time knows subconciously that she should only say pleasing things to you if she wants attention This only works with medium to high interest girls btw.

Good luck kings

ThickDickWarrior89 · 2021-06-23T14:42:13+00:00

Ok I’ll come pick you up at 8 on Friday.

If she says she is busy say- ok that’s cool.

If she doesn’t want to see you then she will not make any further effort. If she wants to see you she will find a way/ time to see you.

Win win situation breh.

Ciabbata · 2021-12-24T20:17:48+00:00

Both examples are extremely needy bro. Think about it as in inviting the girl into your life not trying to get her to go out with you.

ME: "Im planning on going out for some drinks on tuesday or wednesday at 7o'clock. Choose one and join me."

She: "I can't on any of these days but would love to go out on X"

ME: "I have to do X on X. Maybe some other time. Enjoy your week"

-> write her again same style of invitation or find out her schedule now "Hey next week I will have some more time. What days are you free? We will go grab some drinks."

If she ever declines without rescheduling or showing that she wants to see you, it means that she is retarded or uninterested. you go for the next one.

If she ever declines with a stupid reason you ask her to free the time up:

She: "Sorry, I have to do my electric bill on Tuesday"

ME: "I think we can both agree that Im more than worth it to free up some time on Tuesday"

She: "Ok, I will try to finish everything fast and will let you know."

OK, this is enough for a 6 month old thread. Hope this helps people here. Comes from a dude with some actual experience in setting up dates. Examples are from real experiences.

YaBoiExoZ · 2021-10-10T20:51:19+00:00

yeah you've basically answered already
You: "Aight, what other days you've got free?"
Now she either says the days, and you reschedule, or she doesn't. If she doesn't there's a pretty high chance she's just not into you anymore, so you should look for the other fishes

YGK_ · 2022-01-22T15:01:23+00:00

If she doesnt suggest a different time, you dont reply

Title	How do you reply to this basic texts.
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