How do you stop feeling bad when girls fall deeply for you but you just get tired or bored of them and end things?

Unlikely_Composer · 2019-11-22T01:36:42+00:00

You’re not theirs, it’s just their turn.

ThisNewStart · 2019-11-22T02:33:30+00:00

Maybe you’re subtly suggesting commitment in the way you behave, only to withdraw later. That could be what’s making you guilty.

In other words if you’re acting very cutesy and couple-y to the point where she lets her guard down and becomes really emotionally invested in you, of course you’re going to feel guilty when you reveal it didn’t mean a lot to you. But if you make it clear (not blatantly) that it’s more a casual thing for you, you should feel less guilty.

But you’re probably just of a kinder disposition and have more empathy than most and that might not be something you can or should change. I personally find the thirst for revenge stories on this sub cringey.

fuddubandha · 2019-11-22T02:42:26+00:00

I m very upfront with all of them. They know that i don't want commitment and they are still with me after 4 months of telling them. I see them once in a week. They all know what i want and what to expect from. They don't ask to do drama as i keep them at distance

ceilingsky95 · 2019-11-22T01:19:25+00:00

Women do it all the time. But we here at TRP do not condone being a vile piece of S. You can be RP and be morally righteous.

AnneStaz · 2019-11-22T13:31:40+00:00

Could be a symptom of not going for girls in your league.

Go for hotter ones. Usually this happens only when I'm with a girl who I'm way higher value than, and she didnt take that much coaxing.

The hotter higher value girls have way more options and wont feel as bad, they prolly wont even say anything cause they've got a couple decent orbiters

Treatscatscrave · 2019-11-22T07:46:50+00:00

Best thing you can do to avoid the guilt when you are no longer feeling it is to act with compassion. THIS is an occasion where being beta is best way. You need to be kind and let them down gently.

This is no time for nasty comments or jerk behaviour.

Actually beta/ weak men can be the biggest bitches there are when it comes to breaking up with a chick, whereas alphas owing to mastery of their emotions know how to handle things and don't take it out on the girl.

True story: a friend of mine dumped a girl 20 years ago. He said some really nasty things to her.

Circumstances brought them back together.

She treats him like shit now, lies constantly, no guilt at all. Openly insults him.

Now it's TRUE that she may be like this anyway but if only had been kind, maybe not.

Title	How do you stop feeling bad when girls fall deeply for you but you just get tired or bored of them and end things?
Author	TexAs_sWag
Upvotes	15
Comments	19
Date	November 22, 2019 1:06 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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