i've seen weak-ass boyfriends dumped for chads, i've seen women cheat and jump on a better, stronger partner, i've seen rich men dumped for richer men. sure, hypergamy at it's finest, i've seen this loop of branch swinging over and over again. i've got a couple questions though.

if a girl is in a relationship with an "alpha" why does she leave him for a dude who provides her with everything (marriage, stability, finances etc.) but on the other side is a much weaker male?

a year ago i would argue that she just hit the age where she requires these kinds of things/playtime is over but she would still have strong feelings for the alpha she chose to leave.

but now that i have witnessed shit like this first hand, i wanna know how the fuck does hypergamy work in this case? how could her feelings just disappear (i.e. she turns into a total stranger) for the dude that was like a god to her and turn to a weak male who does nothing but just provide.

hence, the question, are their feelings dominated by just certain (alpha) qualities or by anything that she requires/can get out of a relationship at that moment? i can understand a woman not being able to help to be attracted to a stronger male that comes along, she compares both men and her feelings go to the later if he is willing to take her in.

but what happens when a woman leaves a chad for stability? not just out of the necessity, i've seen that more than one woman lost all their feelings for boyfriends just because someone offered them stability. what goes through their minds "oh, he can provide for me and now he's my alpha and i will treat him the same way i treat chads" ?!

do their feelings go for someone who is a better option (be it money, manly qualities, looks etc.) or they are just attracted to male qualities but settle (and kinda resent) weak/stable guys?

i found out the later not to be true, they love/submit to weak partners (ofc who provide) the same way they submit to chads. and if this is true, why most women cheat on providers with alpha "fuckboys"?

hypergamy = feelings = SOMETHING SHE REQUIRES AT A PARTICULAR STAGE OF LIFE?

i'm starting to think that they love anyone or anything that they "need", be it a chad, a loser rich kid or a homeless guy with a huge dick.

what the fuck is up with that?