Anonymous account for my reasons. TRP has helped me immensely over the last few years, and got me through a divorce.

However, I'm back to dating, but found myself in a situation I don't know how to handle. I'm older (50's), and met a woman in her 40s. We had a nice enough time, with sexy time, etc. We hung out at her house, and for the afternoon, came to my hood. We get there, immediately upstairs, and more sexy time.

My house is locked up pretty tight - new-ish, well furnished, and in a fantastic and affluent neighborhood in one of the booming cities on the West Coast. I'm driving a nice new car, and I'm in great shape.

We had lunch, walked through some of the shops, got a few trinkets for an upcoming holiday. And now she's treating me like boyfriend material. She's doing the coy "I thought you wanted to take a nap" as her excuse for our earlier encounter. And when we get back to the house, instead of going upstairs she's got to go home. Of course, there's the promise of rocking sex... later.

It's hard to hide affluence, or where I live. How do I avoid the BB trap? Constant dread? Leave evidence of other girls around (I'm probably too tidy for that.) I don't think a hard next is the right answer, because the next woman is going to see the same house, the same neighborhood, and probably come to the same conclusions.

This isn't the first time it's happened, but it's the first time it's someone I would like to keep seeing.

Thanks