How to banter?

Apfeltee · 2019-05-17T08:42:10+00:00

I think when I game a girl I always banter by challenging the girl. Let’s say, she says she is a good cook. I will never believe the girl just like that, I banter, „Well you can say lots of things. Prove it, I will challenge you and we will see who cooks better.“ Always a good transition to go to her place or set up the next date.

Just don’t take everything she says seriously and joke around. Have fun and challenge her, that’s my approach to bantering.

Dirkz · 2019-05-17T09:52:06+00:00

Amuse yourself. Say things with a shit eating grin. Don't have the same mundane conversations everyone has, push the boundary.

kojimasbeard1 · 2019-05-17T09:50:54+00:00

Watch Seinfeld. Not Even kidding. Try to watch as much comedy as you can (the good kind, none of the The office/SJW/male simp). You'll start noticing funnier things IRL. Soon it will naturally flow out of you.

WIA20XX · 2019-05-17T15:55:56+00:00

How to banter - Seinfeld.
How to banter with hot women - Craig Ferguson.

Siccunt99 · 2019-05-17T10:10:40+00:00

I love to mess with them about their eyebrows how they are asymetrical and shit they go crazy and i just have a good time.

defthrowaway99 · 2019-05-17T12:39:13+00:00

It's mostly sarcasm these days. People under 30 suck at speaking because they were raised on the internet/txt. Sarcasm is the best they'll do so don't get too caught up trying to power word them, they won't understand.

Don_Draper27 · 2019-05-17T17:13:54+00:00

Consume more comedy media. Listen to stand up specials on long drives or watch a Netflix comedy special when you have a plate over.

Also, meditation naturally makes me more light-hearted.

soundspoon · 2019-05-17T07:24:07+00:00

I need this too!

vas_mhtro · 2019-05-17T13:53:49+00:00

Watch vlog creations. Be a cartoon, meaning act like you are a cartoon. https://youtu.be/_arB2qwEyrI this video explains it really good. But when it comes down to it just spit whatever it's in your mind, no one cares to be brutally honest.

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2019-05-17T17:28:14+00:00

Do you not have guy friends? I'm always amazed when I hear this from guys around here. This is one of the things that male friends are for. Whenever I'm hanging out with my buddies it just happens naturally. It's like practicing with your team before going and playing a real game. Any ribbing is not done with the actual intention of beating you down it's for entertainment value, if they're really your friends, and a good comeback normally gets a bigger reaction than a good diss.

TeflonDon3000 · 2019-05-18T07:17:17+00:00

Look up Patrice O’Neal on Opie and Anthony, the king of banter

Title	How to banter?
Author	inbredostrptw
Upvotes	14
Comments	26
Date	May 17, 2019 6:54 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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