How to get self respect

FinancialThanks1 · 2020-09-13T20:42:00+00:00

Call a suicide hotline
Go to the doctor and seek therapy
Talk to someone you trust about it

Labulous · 2020-09-13T20:42:20+00:00

First thing first.

You are now the priority. You take precedence over everything else going on in your life right now.

Call the national suicide hotline. Take care of yourself first, fuck everything else.

You want to have self respect? That is your first step.

beardestbird · 2020-09-13T21:39:54+00:00

I don’t know your situation but if it’s someone in your house look to moving out. If it’s a job look to switching jobs.

If people don’t treat you how you want or deserve cut Em off. Sometimes they continually do that knowing your dependent on them. Example: an abusive parent toward a kid. They know the kid can’t leave and they can get away with it.

You deserve better. Red pill can help you. Call a suicide hotline if you need more help. Don’t waste your life man

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2020-09-13T23:16:07+00:00

Self discipline leads to self respect which leads to self esteem which leads to self love. Uncoincidentally one of the places this is fostered is in the gym which is why its one of TRPs favorite places. If you say "I already go to the gym" I ask you, do you put in true effort? Are you consistent? Do you go on days you "don't feel like it"? If not, then you do not have self discipline, so you do not get self respect.

Aspanu24 · 2020-09-13T22:36:47+00:00

Peoples life’s always improve from these situations. Don’t take your life over a rough patch. I was suicidal 2 years ago after a TBI which left me unable to remember things after 30 seconds. I felt worthless. I’ve been working on improving myself since. Life gets better. Shoot me a message if you want

2020-09-13T23:40:20+00:00

Deserving has got nothing to do with it.

Happiness is a choice.

read my journey through hell post.

it'll help you.

BalkanChrisHemsworth · 2020-09-13T23:27:59+00:00

I was in the same position 2 years ago, therapy did not work. It was a mindset change. I don't really know how to explain it dude. I got dumped by my ex, and realized that I couldnt wallow around be depressed anymore, the only person who could change my life is myself.

Entire_Mind6357 · 2020-09-13T23:44:01+00:00

We all deserve to have anyone and anything we want and to be happy and have a normal life, you do and I do.

Like people say, Call a hotline, Therapy and strive for greatness, We all deserve what we want, Much Love

BigBoyTouche2799 · 2020-09-14T02:13:10+00:00

The only person who always deserves respect is yourself. You’ve been given this life and it’s best to just go out there and make the best of it. Why do you feel you don’t deserve anything? Are you lazy and bottom feeding? Maybe you have to give yourself a friendly kick in the butt. Once you get to this low point you can really improve cause you have nothing to lose. It’s actually harder once you have something to then lose it imo. But, this is a later conversation. You’ll get better many people are struggling at this moment.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2020-09-14T03:06:08+00:00

1)

Psychiatrist or Professional counselor.

Stop fucking around. Stop attempting to "just figure things out on your own." Be smart enough to admit you have a serious fucking emotional problem.

2) 800 273-8255 if you're actually afraid you're going to hurt yourself or take a bunch of pills.

They're trained to deal with this shit and they give a damn.

A bunch of random fuckers on some dank internet forum simply aren't trained to handle your problems. We don't give a damn. Talk to someone who cares.

onlyanger · 2020-09-14T11:14:13+00:00

Start lifting immediately and start learning how to fight.

You will be much more confident and carry yourself much differently and you’ll learn to not take shit from anybody

2020-09-14T01:37:48+00:00

Get confident, stupid!

Title	How to get self respect
Author	viciouslayer
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Date	September 13, 2020 8:03 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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Psychiatrist or Professional counselor.