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How to go Monk mode without frustration ?

supstoov69
December 6, 2020
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Title How to go Monk mode without frustration ?
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supstoov69
Upvotes 8
Comments 25
Date December 6, 2020 8:07 PM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/k80ywf/how_to_go_monk_mode_without_frustration/
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Comments

[–]Adorable_FecalSpray15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Work out hard, heavy, often.

Get into BJJ, Boxing, Muay Thai.

Study Stoicism.

Learn how to meditate.

Start side hustles.

You have to do things to put your time and energy into, so you don’t have the time or energy to be frustrated.

[–]uborka1612 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

where would you start to meditate? book/online course?

[–]Adorable_FecalSpray2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Apps: headspace, 10 percent are two that I’ve used. I like the ability to track my sessions, that most apps offer.

Just start off using their free offerings to see if they work for you. Then if you buy, wait until they have a 50% off sale.

You probably could find some good YouTube channels that would give you good introductions.

[–]shittyfuckdick1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Someone here recommended Waking Up to me and it’s great.

[–]TheRedPillRipper7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

without frustration

The key to doing anything without frustration is Emotional Mastery. It applies to Monk Mode, Pick-Up and almost every circumstance you may encounter. A pivotal factor being Stoicism. I made a post that could help.

Godspeed and good luck!

[–]vCynicalx2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Be very careful not to turn into a dopamine addict scounding this sub during monk mode it’s counter productive

[–]uborka1615 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

well, I think a monk mode is a good idea now. We have lockdowns, and I don't want to waste my time on tinder, so I'm monk mode too.

the thing is,that this comes from internally. If you feel the need of interaction,than go and do it. I can't judge you for it, there's nothing wrong with that

[–]MakotoGreen1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

State clear goals as to why. Going monk mode for the sake of it isn’t enough. I did it for a while because I wanted to get into grad school, get a 6 figure job, and generally increase my SMV. It all worked out and it was some of the least emotional and most productive time of my life in the last several years. Basically, focus entirely on self-improvement and discover WHAT YOU WANT IN LIFE. You gotta dream bro.

[–]BlondeHornyElf3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A monk focuses on self-discipline, learning, and development - and through this is willing to suffer his solitude until he comes to peace with it.

When the monk has achieved emptiness and has forgotten his withdrawal and desperation, he is ready to face the world with a purified mind and a stronger body and spirit.

[+]jjj2576-6 points-5 points-4 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Don’t.

[–]supstoov69[S] -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Why? :)

[–]_9teen1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Cuz it's an excuse people use to not approach girls. Because you're on your grind doesn't mean that you cannot talk to a homo sapiens from the female sex

[–]supstoov69[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I approached a lot of Girls without success and I think the Monk mode is better for me perhaps

[–]_9teen3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"I got rejected multiple times, my ego can't take it anymore therefore I will use Monk Mode as an excuse to not do it again"

[–]oreo876420-3 points-2 points-1 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah why and wtf is monk mode

[+]oreo876420-8 points-7 points-6 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Tf is monk mode bruh

[–]supstoov69[S] 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

TF??

[–]oreo876420-2 points-1 points0 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

What th is monk mode

[–]supstoov69[S] -4 points-3 points-2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Not approaching girls

[–]oreo876420-1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I'm pretty young and have tried that one waste your life just be a man and face it

[–]Adorable_FecalSpray7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just be a man.

Just be rich.

Just don’t be depressed.

Just... just... just do it.

Weak advice.

Break it down on how to do those things, makes it a bit better advice.

[–]supstoov69[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

How Can I face it?

[–]oreo8764201 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Bruh a girl is a regular person ma nigga all you gotta do is just treat her like a nerd or a 5 year old if you suffer from anxiety. Also don't talk too much just be a laid back cold ass mf

[–]kushapedia-2 points-1 points0 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Unless you are super low SMV to the point where all women are disgusted by you, you should be improving yourself and approaching women at the same time. Otherwise monk mode is just a buffer.

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