How to handle bad behaviour

quicklogaccount · 2017-06-20T18:03:54+00:00

What would my trp brothers do in this case?

Keep your mouth shut dude. This is serious. Just pick up your "not upgradeable" stamp and hit her resume with it.
Under any circumstance, when you tell a girl to refrain from acting in a certain way, no matter which way, you are saying "you are too important for me to leave you because of this but I dislike it, so I would like you to refrain from it". You're giving her power and informing her of it. Smarter chicks pick up on that immediately and start gaming you accordingly - which isn't great, I should stress -, but even slower chicks pick up on the cue eventually.

I'd totally invite her and her bestie for drinks though.

SkimSTi · 2017-06-20T19:07:39+00:00

you are giving her an ultimatum. those never work. instead, you can address it along the lines of "any girl im dating wouldn't act like that" and then you let THEM fix their actions. if they are interested in being serious with you (you upgrading them from plate) they will correct their actions. if they continue to do it. they don't respect you or see you as a partner. you have to move on from that point as a violation of your boundary.

MentORPHEUS · 2017-06-20T18:46:31+00:00

Brother, it's like she arrived wearing a T-shirt reading, "Plate material only. Friend DTF as well!" You don't always get such reliable channel markers in life, be thankful this time and maximize whatever gains you can derive while this gig is still running.

The-Hardball-Player · 2017-06-20T20:10:55+00:00

A threesome.

Am I missing something here?

walawalawa · 2017-06-20T23:51:29+00:00

My immediate reaction is to nip it in the bud and when when i next see her say something along the lines of 'if you ever do that again, boy or girl, you can go ahead and delete me from your contacts' and leave it at that.

I found myself in this situation with a "plate" who I developed stronger feelings for. She kept pushing for some sort of exclusivity...yet constantly acted out in very unacceptable ways.

One main one was hanging out with other guy "Friends"...which included two of my thirsty...pathetic "friends".

At different times I'd blow up at her...it was a lot of drama. She was withholding sex etc.

I text: "There's no need for us to be in touch..." she came running over and came over.

But it only breeds resentment and creates needless drama.

it was a good learning...Now I would recommend to you to distance yourself. Saying that would only breed resentment.

Sadly, in a Blue Pill context the idea of "talking it out"...is promoted. When you get into the Red Pill mindset the idea of "giving her a piece of your mind" seems to be aligned with being alpha.

Context is everything...you'll sound like you're whinging...she'll resent the idea you're scolding her for her behavior and resent you.

This sounds like a character trait....best to just see this girl as someone to hang out with and bang and nothing more serious than that...she doesn't take herself seriously why should you?

MaxwellGaine · 2017-06-20T17:55:44+00:00

If she's a plate, why do you care?

DJVendetta · 2017-06-21T01:23:40+00:00

My LTR kissed her best friend on the lips 'by accident' while we were out. People have had suspicions about them, me too, as they are super close and she's way happier around her than she is with me.

So I agreed and amplified and kissed my guy friend on the lips, just a peck. She HATED it.

Title	How to handle bad behaviour
Author	sirfuckboysupreme
Upvotes	2
Comments	14
Date	June 20, 2017 5:53 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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