Hey guys, relatively new to TRP, and have a serious case of oneitis. She was my LTR for a long time until recently, but I’d like to have her back as my LTR. This time I would employ TRP tactics, where before I was as BP as it gets.

Anyway, here’s the scenario. Last time I spoke to her, I was more TRP than she’s ever seen. I told her she’d find someone new to go on dates with and fuck her, but wouldn’t compare to me. (I know, I know-no need to validate myself to her, still haven’t fully embraced TRP quite yet.) I’m celebrating my birthday this weekend with the same circle of mutual friends we’ve shared for years. I haven’t invited her yet, she’s probably still assuming I don’t want her there.

The question I have is: do I invite her to come out to bars with us, and go RP when she shit tests me? You know, not care if she’s talking/dancing with other guys, and talk to girls myself? Or do I not invite and not give a shit?

Advice/tips would be great. Last post, everyone said move on as she’s taking a ride on the CC. It’s possible, but not that helpful. As BP as it sounds, I really would like her back as my LTR.