How to prevent premature ejacultion

abXcv · 2016-09-26T17:01:12+00:00

You're probably tensing your PC muscle when you fuck.

Stop doing that and you will be able to last a lot longer.

knightSwolaire · 2016-09-26T19:15:37+00:00

Tactical Wank, but not 5-10 minutes prior. more like 5 hours prior.

woahmano · 2016-09-26T17:16:58+00:00

I've been dealing with the same problem, amigo. I'll give you some tips I've found on the internet. Start flexing your PC muscle(one between your balls and anus) flex for about 5 seconds and release, do this about 10 times. I tend to have this muscle contracted when having sex and it definitely makes me orgasm faster, so try to keep it relaxed. Start taking deep breaths through your belly, shallow breathing increases your heart rate and you want to be as relaxed as possible so you have more control. Another thing I find that helps is giving her clitoral stimulation while having sex, this will take your mind off your dick which is a good thing.

Willkuer_ · 2016-09-26T18:24:50+00:00

Peeing trick helps me as well.

sometimes I consider during sex how ridiculous this all must look like from some external objective point of view. I try to analyze my partner, look how the ribs move or some other shit. However I might look like some psychopath. Enumerating prime numbers also helps.

Trp offen suggests deathgrip and porn as medicine.

The pc trick from the others sounds nice as well.

Surfincloud9 · 2016-09-26T20:18:21+00:00

Lucky. I wish I could cum. I'll literally fuck for an hour to two hours and then finally come. I always fuck girls senseless and it keeps em begging for it but they get sad and think I'm gonna leave them.

Take some Kratom or a less harmful opiate. You probably won't cum. Don't get hooked, I rarely do it

I_like_rick_n_morty · 2016-09-26T22:17:30+00:00

edging, or curbing. Basically stop jerking off just to pound it out. Jerk off to really get in touch with your dick. You want to learn all the sensations leading up to nutting, without nutting. Then learn to relax through that sensation mostly by realizing what you have tensed (not just your dick but other muscles), and how to relax them.

I shit you not you master how to relax before cuming you can fuck more. Also jogging to help with stamina. Your dick is heavily tied to your cardiovascular system.

Also if you are getting close a change in position like from missionary to her on top can help. Anyone else do that nice roll where you lay back grab her hand and kind of roll back and lift her up at the same time? Sexy transitions man. up your game.

[deleted] · 2016-09-26T21:46:37+00:00

Easy. Next few times you jerk off, try "curbing". That's where you reach the point where you feel it coming to climax, and stop just before cumming. Do this like 5-10 times in a session.

Don't do it too much.

BlackHeart89 · 2016-09-27T02:12:18+00:00

Do you ever masturbate? Practice bruh. Having to pee actually has the opposite effect on me. It makes me want to get it over with asap.

Usyoubigam · 2016-09-27T04:41:36+00:00

I use my sensitivity as an advantage.

One trick I do is to simply cum in the beginning of sex and enjoy it (blowjob, etc) then it's her turn. I kiss and rub all over and build her up until she's ready. By the time I'm hard again, she's begging for it and I'm able to last. That's what works for me.

Side note - I do reverse kegels, no porn, and no fap as well. Seems to help me with keeping a much larger flaccid state. I went from a "grower" to a "shower".

Food for thought.

Disaster532385 · 2016-09-27T05:27:20+00:00

Read 'The Ejaculation Trainer', then work at arrousal control through the start and stop method with the Flesh Light STU and strengthen your pelvic floor muscles by doing kegels and reverse kegels.

This blog has great information : http://www.risingmaster.com/blog/

Short term solutions are delay sprays and medication (tramadol and SSRI's).

brooklynisburnin · 2016-09-27T03:27:55+00:00

Go to a fucking urologist instead of wasting time with esoteric solutions, dude you're fucking 26 and have actual real premature ejaculation, none of that "2 minute cause of porn" stuff.

You could be one pill away from fixing your sex life, the fuck are you doing?

MisterOrigon · 2016-09-26T16:51:00+00:00

Ah, have I got something for you to try.

Enter: the 'Tactical Wank'.

Blow your load 5-10 minutes before sex (you'll need to be on your second erection), and you'll last longer because your dick will be less sensitive.

Let us know how that goes

Title	How to prevent premature ejacultion
Author	Thebilboestbaggins
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Date	September 26, 2016 4:38 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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