How to see a chick quickly or get rejected quickly on tinder without wasting a time?

Quantum_Jiraiya · 2018-02-11T01:47:04+00:00

An easy formula:

Hey what’s up What are you looking for? What’s your number?

It usually doesn’t matter what she says she is looking for, but if she straight up says “a hookup” etc then just know to never upgrade above a plate. If she responds “what are you looking for?” you can respond with “nothing serious (or something like that). What’s your number?”

awakendragon · 2018-02-11T18:45:43+00:00

I usually go with:

you are cute, I had to say hi.
up for drinks this x evening?
whatsapp?

Majority follow, the ones that don't, forget.

And that's it.

RedSkeller · 2018-02-10T19:14:25+00:00

Keep it light and get the number within 5 messages. You can try to screen with a witty bio/sexually polarizing statement and that’s about as good as it gets. Most people on there just want to watch the world burn in terms of going out and meeting so don’t sweat it. Just be non invested and say what comes to mind before you get up and wipe your ass.

shadowTX77 · 2018-02-11T07:51:56+00:00

I used Tinder for about 3 months and got 4 fucks. IDK if you consider that good or not, so base my advice on those stats.

During that time I had my shit together to a degree (bad job but worked out daily and had my own place). Having my own place was key. Since I moved in with family I had one fuck in like 5 months. Girls loss interest at the "we can split a hotel" point.

Anyway, going straight for the number is freaking creepy. I'd say at least a dozen messages back and forth first.

Try to give her the small talk she wants first. I try to hit some current event shit like "this weather sucks, chilling at my place" (basically a fucking invitation to her), or if she ask what I'm doing I'm at the NFL/NBA game, whatever. Show I'm doing something and give her an opportunity to respond like, in the direction of she's doing something too. Which can lead to let's do something together...

anonlymouse · 2018-02-10T21:37:51+00:00

Also girls try to prolong the conversation with bullshit by saying "haha mighty forward aren't you?"

They want to feel comfortable. It sounds what you need is a hooker. If you can't afford one to your tastes, you're overrating how valuable your own time is.

johnnygun- · 2018-02-10T22:53:47+00:00

Im average looking. My profile generic. 30's male. As soon as I started being an amusing cocky dick slinging sexual innuendo from hello, the nude pics and phone numbers came rolling in. Happily girlfriended now though.

Whisper · 2018-02-11T01:10:06+00:00

"Hey"

"That line usually work for you?"

"haha mighty forward aren't you?"

"Yep"

Title	How to see a chick quickly or get rejected quickly on tinder without wasting a time?
Author	jake755
Upvotes	9
Comments	16
Date	February 10, 2018 7:02 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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