Hypocrites Everywhere

resnine · 2018-07-08T15:27:16+00:00

So many girls do this shit to get back at said friend. It is a tactic. Countless times I've had the ex's of my friends try to get with me, it is a way of getting back at their ex's. Don't sink to their level. This is manipulation, they are only using you as a pawn. Don't dis your friend like that.

Store_Front_Door · 2018-07-08T14:38:10+00:00

I'm new here so go hard on me.

Go hard on the sidebar

JordanRedfort · 2018-07-08T14:40:39+00:00

This is a choice you’ll have to make on your own. But ask yourself these two questions:

1) Am I a hypocrite?

When you chat to your friend about this girl, do you bag her personality and her looks out, or just her awful personality?

If you say “She’s a bitch but I’d still fuck” then you’re not a hypocrite and go right ahead. If you say “She’s a bitch and I wouldn’t fuck” then you’re not being transparent with yourself, which is low value behaviour. Identify and repair.

2) What do I value more, a friend or a ONS?

This comes down to preference, and I’m not going to judge what you do. But if you fuck the girl, regardless of whether you tell him or not, there is going to be tension in your friendship and a chance it may dissolve completely.

It ultimately comes down to your friends level of investment - if he constantly bitches about her, there’s a chance he’s still invested and patching on to the past. In which case, he’s the one exhibiting low value behaviour and you should help him out.

Only you can be the judge, but make sure to ask yourself those two questions before you act.

heyuguyzbrekfazt · 2018-07-08T21:11:54+00:00

SO many women do this on purpose. The truth is this girl could sleep with most guys if she offered, but she picked you PURPOSELY. She wants to piss off your friend and wants to "get back at him". She doesn't give a flying fuck what happens to your friendship if you two hook up, she simply wants to cause your buddy emotional pain because she got used like the community bicycle. It's a childish tactic, and lots of women use it. She won't admit to this in A THOUSAND FUCKING YEARS, so do not even try to get the truth from her.

I have a chick I was seeing do this exact same shit right now, she's been hitting on a friend and he fell for the pussy. She goes out of her way to make it obvious that they have been seeing each other, and I can promise this chick whose trying to fuck you is going to do the same to your bud. Bro's before ho's, do not engage. Pussy is a dime a dozen, friends are not.

Title	Hypocrites Everywhere
Author	DVidojkovic
Upvotes	4
Comments	12
Date	July 8, 2018 2:10 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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