Hi guys,

Not sure if I'm at the right address here, but here it goes.

I've met this girl about 6 weeks ago at a club and we've really hit it off and even kissed. We started texting a lot, pretty much everyday. And we've set up a date about 2 weeks later. Went to drink something first and we really had a great time. After that we went to the cinema and eventually made out in my car and fingerbanged her. The weeks after that we've started to catch feelings for each other and did a lot of dirty talk on w'app. I even made her orgasm twice with just the things I've said to her.

2 days ago the plan was to watch a movie at my house. She texted me that she's really sorry but she doesn't think she is ready to be in a relationship so soon again and needs some time to try and be happy on her own. She even was a little bit depressed. I eventually persuaded her to just hang out with me and take it slow. She picked me up in her car and after a while we start to make out again. But while we're at it she kinda pushes me away and almost bursted out in tears. She brought me home and I said goodnight to her.

She came out of a relationship of 5 years and is single since february. It was quite a boring relationship she mentioned to me though. For about a year she lived together with her ex in the house they bought. The ex still lives there and she's back at her parents'. She pays quite a lot of mortgage every month for the house and it's up for sale for half a year now. She mentions that that makes her life pretty stressful and just hates to pay all the money every month. She has no feelings for her ex anymore but she regrets the way she've treated him.

So I come to the point. She really, really, really likes me and I like her too. But she says she needs some time alone to be happy and get her life together. She've also mentioned that I've found her at the wrong time, since it's a lot of stress for her in this period and has some moodswings.

I think the best thing for me to do is move on with my own life and give her some space and time. But the ball is in her court and I'm not gonna wait for months like some whipped dog to ask her when she's feeling ready. If I meet another girl along the way, I'm not gonna hold back, which I've also said to her.

I fucking bursted out in tears yesterday night ffs. I like her so much and wished that things would be easier.

Yesterday I've texted after her after that night that we spent together. We used to text each other with good morning etc. But the whole day I've received nothing so I texted her later that day. I could tell that she was quite distant towards me and responded with short messages so I did the same. Today hasn't been much better. The last text she sent me a couple of hours ago was just hahaha.

I'm just gonna leave it like this and not bother texting her anymore. She says she needs time so I'm gonna give her that and continue my own life.

Usually when women say "I need time" is just a polite way of saying "You're just interesting anymore". But in this case she really just needs to get her life together.

I'm just puzzeled like a motherfucker.

Tl;dr She says she thinks she's not ready and needs some time to learn to have fun on her own. What would you guys do in this situation?