I met with this girl from uni today who btw has a LDR, and we went for a walk around town and at some point she even mentioned she was on her period while we were talking about swimming. We walked around town for a bit and then I suggested to go to my place for a movie. We got some waffles and headed home.

So we went to my place and i put some music on and sat on the sofa for a while eating the waffles. All the while the vibe felt weird. She then stood up and sat on my office chair and started changing songs and showing me video clips on youtube.

After a while I said let's put on a movie to get her back to the sofa next to me. She said "it's already too late I have to wake up early for uni".

So we kept talking and I was sitting on the sofa while she was on the chair. I just couldn't figure out a way to kino, what was I supposed to do? pull her from the chair?

As the night progressed I felt the boring vibe and am sure she felt it too. We kept talking about songs etc and when I told her come here next to me she said no am fine here.

She kept showing me stuff on youtube and I couldn't take control of the situation.

After an hour or so she left to go sleep for uni. I don't know if she had me friendzoned before tonight, or if I just fucked up tonight, but this really sucks. I haven't had a girl to my place in a long time, and I felt like a boring fuck.

I don't know why she came to my place, but wouldn't she at least allow a small window for me to escalate? Come close to me or something? The conversation was great and we had lots of laughs, but no sexual tension.

it's not about this girl, it's about me sucking, am sure she wouldn't be excited to meet again.