I get insecure that she will find better

abdada · 2017-02-01T02:23:30+00:00

100% of men come to TRP because of one non-issue instead of real issues.

ggyujjbi · 2017-02-01T06:46:07+00:00

She won't leave you because of your dick, but if she finds someone after you with a bigger dick, you better believe she's going to be glad she has it. Just a fact of life

TeflonDon3000 · 2017-02-01T05:00:58+00:00

My dick gets hard only after crazy amounts of attention, I cum pretty rarely and with huge difficulty, and I'll get soft after even the slightest distraction. (Porn-induced dead dick)

Yet I could give a fuck less.

I fuck my girl the best I can, with a lot of hate and a little love.

Are there other guys who would tear her apart even better? Absolutely. And I bet I'm not in her top 5 best fucks... well maybe, but it wouldn't have to do with the physical.

So why does she stay with me?

I own her mentally. I control all of her emotions, I tell her how to feel about me. You'll never be the best fuck, or have the biggest dick, ever. So don't compete on those terms. Compete on being the best masculine man she's ever had in her life, and she'll never leave.

And if she does, good, get another to mold.

-drukpa-kunley- · 2017-02-01T04:33:48+00:00

First, A big dick doesn't mean good sex.

This is what you are doing. You're doing reverse-projection. You are imagining that other men with big dicks would be manlier, because you would feel manlier if you had a big dick.

Bottom line, wishing is not going to help. You will have to reprogram your mind.

What if you got into a horrible car accident and were paralyzed from the waist down? And you were married. I'd bet you'd figure out how to pleasure your wife without a dick.
You are focusing on the negative. Focus on the positive. Why don't you try being the best damn pussy-licker there ever was? Also, find something about your body that you really like and focus on that? Don't like anything about your body? Then lift.

Edit: Why don't you google image search 'Hot guys with small dicks'. Does your body look like theirs? There are over 3 billion girls on the planet. I bet a lot of them would be willing to bang the guys in your image search.

2nd Edit. Just because I know that some of you are too scared to do an image search, here: NSFW example

Sensei_Hensei · 2017-02-01T11:09:37+00:00

she will find someone else and they may or may not be better...he may have an 18 inch penis or an eighth of an inch penis..but she will find someone else

just enjoy your turn

anguspepper12 · 2017-02-01T12:23:30+00:00

Dick size matters to girls, but you're fucking her for your pleasure, not hers. Her pleasure is just a side effect of yours, stop giving a shit what she thinks. If it's not big enough, she can go hop on another dick and you can go find another vagina; that should be your mentality.

The best comparison for dick size I can think of is how men think of boob size. Some men won't fuck girls that have a flat chest (i.e. really small penises), but most don't care as long as the girl has a lot of other things going for her (and as a man, you can have a lot more going for you than a woman can). Yes big tits are a nice to have, but they are in no way the whole package. Offer more in your whole package and don't worry about it.

ArthurTheAstronaut · 2017-02-01T04:35:13+00:00

I wouldn't necessarily say I'm qualified to be giving advice, but I can relate to your inexperience.

The first girl I fucked, I got her pregnant. Was with her for 3 years, and when we broke up I was severely self conscious about my dick and my sexual abilities. Baby momma and I had EXTREMELY vanilla sex for the entire relationship. So when I was single again, I was scared I'd just embarrass myself.

Truth of the matter is, that feeling only goes away as you get more and more pussy. So my advice..get out of that LTR asap. You're never going to stop having those thoughts until you fuck a couple more women, and see for yourself that your LTR isn't the only chick in the world that's ever going to enjoy your dick.

I used to have terrible performance anxiety, that kept me from getting it up multiple times...until I fucked a few more chicks and realized "Damn...my dick ain't bad at all...and she even wants MORE!" Anxiety-no-more, my friend.

The problem is that right now, you're feeling like your LTR only likes your dick because it's yours...so that means that NO ONE ELSE IN THE WORLD would ever enjoy it. But that couldn't be further from the truth.

You just need more experience, brother. Plain and simple.

Bonus Pro-tip: Learn to eat pussy like a mother fucking champion. No matter what happens, that bitch will always be satisfied. Couple nights ago I got whiskey-dicked worse than I think I ever have...Couldn't fuck her, so I went down until she absolutely couldn't handle anymore. She certainly didn't have anything to complain about.

recursoinominado · 2017-02-01T13:19:22+00:00

Don't ever overestimate other people's ability in bed, even Chad's. Believe me, most guys don't know how to fuck properly. Go read some TRP recommended books, apply yourself, make her cum a lot and your are fine, maybe even the best lover she ever had.

MattyAnon · 2017-02-01T14:09:43+00:00

I feel men with bigger dicks would be manlier than me. I feel like a beta when i have these thoughts of her leaving due to my small dick. I wish i just didnt give a fuck.

Go to good looking loser for some thoughts on increasing size if it bothers you that much. Don't tell your gf obviously.

Get more options so you care less if she leaves you. Accept that it can and will happen, and it might be for reasons unrelated to your dick.

The glass is already broken. Learn to live with this, primarily through having a solid plan B. Work on needing less whatever she gives you.

brinkleybuzz · 2017-02-01T14:14:28+00:00

My advice? Don't audition for a role in a porn vid.

Your problem is oneitis, not the size of your dick. Bang another dozen chicks and you'll figure out that most won't care about the size of your cock until you break up with them.

BusterVadge · 2017-02-01T14:36:38+00:00

Unless you're zombie john holmes, there is always a man with a bigger dick, and who cares. She's not yours anyway, it's just your turn. Fuck her with the pecker that you have, and don't worry, that insecurity will make you more beta than having a small-ish dick will.

aurelius_shrugs · 2017-02-01T21:26:57+00:00

A woman will leave even if you have a monster cock.

aurelius_shrugs · 2017-02-01T21:42:17+00:00

Women fuck more with their mind than they do with their body. They really give no shits about letting various people use their bodies.

fancypants_ · 2017-02-01T06:51:29+00:00

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I get insecure that she will find better

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Women will never love you, they will only love how you make them feel.

Title	I get insecure that she will find better
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Date	February 1, 2017 2:22 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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