I got settled for

Stayinghereforreal · 2015-11-08T12:29:44+00:00

She likes having sex with tall, black basketball players. She cannot, however, get them to stick around.

She is seeking you to stick around, while she continues to lust for tall, black basketball players. That says very little about you, except that she does not lust for you, because preferences.

How do you proceed? Focus on your career, lift, eat right, sleep, socialize, etc. It is all there in the sidebar. Read it. Then go find a woman into guys like mobrowncheeks. Avoid women who straight up tell you they are sexually into other sorts of guys, but are willing to date you.

midastwentytwo · 2015-11-08T14:18:39+00:00

she will look at you as nothing more than just someone she fell back on. you were not a priority. you were her fall back.

I cannot stress this enough: DO NOT. and i repeat: DO NOT. GO OUT OF YOUR WAY FOR HER.

if you are horny, shoot her a text and tell her to come over. but do nothing more. do not buy her dinner. do not buy her snacks. do not rent movies or whatever it is the fuck people do now. do not drive to her place. do not make time for her. do not do anything to cater to her. because you will literally be wasting your time and effort.

go make some goals and pursue them. like the guy before me said: lift, eat right, read (in general, it makes you smarter), sleep (makes you smarter and healthier), and do your own thing.

this girl has a set designation for you in your mind and sorry to say it, but it is too far along to change it. she knows what she wants, and she knows what she can fall back on.

you can try for her all you want, it wont do anything. trust me, I know. i have done it. multiple guys have done it. we can chase after as many women that dont want us as much as we want them. it wont do anything.

just accept the sunk cost, get what you can at her own expense, not yours. and move on.

NotUpToAnythingGood · 2015-11-08T15:12:08+00:00

Enjoy her settling for you. Reap whatever benefits you can. Don't invest heavily in her.

Besides, you are 19. You have your life ahead of you. You still have options. Most people aren't really ready / grown up enough for marriage at that point. Hell, I wasn't ready for marriage until my mid 20s and I had been married since I was 20.

frequentlywrong · 2015-11-08T13:12:55+00:00

How do I proceed?

She came right out as an alpha widow. You will never be the guy she truly wants. So don't bother. Find a better woman.

StrongButter · 2015-11-08T13:17:25+00:00

Keep her as a plate.

Keep stance, and don't catch feelings.

2comment · 2015-11-08T14:51:11+00:00

Don't stress yourself over this bitch. Keep working on yourself.

GunsGermsAndSteel · 2015-11-08T16:11:53+00:00

Why the fuck do you care?

Tell her you usually only go for models, but you've decided to stop being so shallow and and you're gonna try to date her instead.

Then fuck her a couple more times.

Then tell her you really prefer models, and stop talking to her.

Or you could try being blacker and taller.

bittr_n_swt · 2015-11-08T12:49:37+00:00

fuck her one time then leave her

redpillcynic · 2015-11-08T15:20:57+00:00

Plate. Find others

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-11-08T17:24:59+00:00

Put it in her butt and make it hurt.

Demand threesomes with her friends. Cum in her hair.

MadChestHairYuKnight · 2015-11-08T19:24:24+00:00

She likes big dicks, and it seems you don't have one according to her. Move on bro.

throw_em_all · 2015-11-09T20:08:03+00:00

How do I proceed?

Consider her a plate, keep her around for sex and practical abundance mentality, but keep doing what you should be doing, gym, studies, game, hobbies, etc.

You now know two things, she's not LTR material and you need to work on your SMV, plan ahead with that information at hand.

Futdashukup · 2015-11-08T13:28:47+00:00

She's a nasty bitch and is with you because you have low self-esteem. Most people see kindness as weakness.

Title	I got settled for
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	12
Comments	21
Date	November 8, 2015 12:14 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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