I hate my life

LouieBulk · 2016-06-05T03:06:27+00:00

Hey brother;

I read your post, you're not alone. SA is very crippling, especially when it comes to women. However, if I can over come it, so can you. Look at my post history, it's living proof. I was anxious af, couldn't even order pizza. But look and me now, I am actually flirting with women getting laid. Here's what helped me:

Retail job; it really helped me get over my SA, it forces you too be comfortable with yourself and talking to others.
Gym; can't stress this enough. Helps with your confidence and testosterone.
Time; literally, dedicate time to yourself, you will give less of a fuck as time rolls by. Meditate, read , meetups etc.

Message me if you ever need to talk.

Edit:

Therapist; preferably a male, just to talk. My therapist is very RP. He always pushes me when it comes to women and raising my SMV.

ThisTension · 2016-06-05T03:24:11+00:00

Are you seeing anyone or taking any meds to deal with this stuff?

I used to be a housebound agoraphobic. Now I'm a world traveler.

You can turn your life around but probably not alone.

You can PM me if you want more insight but be ready to make changes not excuses.

jamesbond0512 · 2016-06-05T05:19:28+00:00

Yo bro, we love you.

Darkredsubmarine · 2016-06-05T01:33:46+00:00

if you wake up with a hardon, your dick works just fine. You just have anxiety issues or something.

If you are actually correct and your dick doesn't work. Well you will have to accept that and find a way to enjoy your life in other ways.

With the rest, focus on yourself the best way you can. You'll get through this.

TheRedStoic · 2016-06-05T01:50:22+00:00

It's rough. You should seek council from glo or omla, both can probably help you. Even the brutal information (presumed true) that you've provided is nowhere near enough to create any actionable plan for you. You should have a conversation with one of the endorsed or vets here. They really do care, and we (trp) won't ignore you.

Darkredsubmarine · 2016-06-05T01:26:04+00:00

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Title	I hate my life
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Upvotes	7
Comments	24
Date	June 5, 2016 1:21 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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