I have a gut feeling...

vandaalen · 2017-07-22T22:30:20+00:00

Dude. You are up for some trickle truth. She has either already fucked him or is strongly working on doing so, maybe even branchswinging.

The moment she asked you for a "break", you should have ended it. She essentially kicked you to the curb and that always without exception means that you end it. It does not get much more disrespectful than that.

Sorry, pal.

Scheme00 · 2017-07-22T22:34:46+00:00

Sorry to hear this. It looks as if you have been cheated on already. The gut reaction is very telling. The subconscious is linked to our stomach. So when you get the gut reaction it's the subconscious telling your body that something is not right. Her saying I love you more is a sign that she feels guilty. This is what happened:

Meets work guy. They want to bang each other. She wants to break up to fuck him but have you as option if she doesn't like him. She fucks him. She tells you she loves you more. You get gut reaction. You know this is how it went down. Cut her loose.

All_Ads_Deceive · 2017-07-22T23:55:09+00:00

If a girl asks for a break or open relationship, you ended it immediately. No exceptions. It means she already has or plans on fucking someone(s)

ReddJive · 2017-07-22T23:04:56+00:00

You’re instincts are there for a reason. If you have that feeling in your gut. You’re about to be kicked in the nuts

thepitman · 2017-07-23T00:51:26+00:00

Your gut feeling is right. She fucked that dude, it's obvious.

Think for a second, why would she say she wants to "breakup" for a week?

Have some self respect and don't become a bitch.

You should have dumped her the second she finished that sentence. She's already gone brah

BlackMisc · 2017-07-22T22:20:26+00:00

break it off. shes rode some1 elses cock

SiulaGrande · 2017-07-23T00:40:31+00:00

congrats. youve just witnessed awalt first hand. if you cant stand being with her anymore or it no longer feels "right", just leave.

_the_shape_ · 2017-07-23T02:58:30+00:00

From experience, once a relationship goes sour the way you're describing, the worst thing you can do is fight until the very bitter end in hope of saving it. The mental suffering is simply not worth it.

Perhaps the last hurdle is the drive to mate-guard and keep her from this shadowy figure lurking in the dark? Don't give into this trap - that's how you hold onto something that will drive you to the brink of lunacy, maybe all the way over the edge even and into the abyss.

If you end it now, you likely will still suffer some, but sticking around is guaranteed torture; terminating it is the beginning of your freedom. Rest assure that many of us have been in your shoes. Happens to the best of us. Go with your gut on this one - the odds are very high it's actually onto something, not that you're paranoid or freaking out over something non-existent. Her telling you that she loves you and suddenly is considering a baby out of nowhere, paired with talk of a possible break and this guy from her job, are very revealing signs that something's amiss.

FlyingSexistPig · 2017-07-23T03:02:45+00:00

"Let's take a break for a week" means "There's this guy I'm going to fuck, and I don't want you to break up with me over it."

She fucked him, and now you're fucked if you stay. The relationship is over. Go lift.

raisins3142 · 2017-07-22T23:48:19+00:00

She wanted to break up to try fucking other people, she's talking about some guy at work, and you are wondering whether or not this is all innocent.

It's not innocent. And you know this. Your gut is screaming "Buehler, are you a fucking retard??".

GreenPiller · 2017-07-23T01:13:59+00:00

Break up as soon as possible.

Analgruppenfuher · 2017-07-23T00:37:53+00:00

Ghost this stupid bitch. She devoured her co-worker's cock like a Holocaust survivor at a Szechuan buffet.

mrpthrowa · 2017-07-22T22:33:30+00:00

Before that, we had a discussion, and she asked me if there's the possibility of kind of breaking up for one week, and during this week we can fuck whoever we want

red flag demote to plate, no questions asked.

empatheticapathetic · 2017-07-23T03:13:21+00:00

I think you should take the break and fuck the dude before she does.

TryhardPantiesON · 2017-07-23T06:22:26+00:00

Always follow your gut.

I agree with you and i too thinkit is time to jump off the boat.

primo_pastafarian · 2017-07-23T06:12:12+00:00

Trust your gut - she has no respect for you. If you respect yourself, you need to end it with her and start fucking other girls.

hafskaa · 2017-07-23T03:04:46+00:00

Cut her loose

The__Tren__Train · 2017-07-23T03:13:53+00:00

possibility of kind of breaking up for one week, and during this week we can fuck whoever we want

ABANDON SHIP!!

edit: i love how women come up with these ideas.. weird as fuck lmao

Borsao66 · 2017-07-23T02:36:23+00:00

"If there is a doubt, there is no doubt." - Sam in Ronin

daytonbull90 · 2017-07-23T05:44:53+00:00

I've been cheated on countless times, it's what led me to trp. They get closer emotionally when they cheat, the fact that she wanted a break to be able to fuck her co-worker is a huge red flag. I would have beat the dude's ass, personally, but then again I probably wouldn't be in a relationship in the first place. You owe no one an explanation if you choose to break up with someone, not even the person you dumped. Get out before a year and a half turns into 3.

TehJimmyy · 2017-07-23T10:46:37+00:00

if there's the possibility of kind of breaking up for one week, and during this week we can fuck whoever we want

i burst out laughing and you agreed to it. I wish i could slap you in the face.

flatox · 2017-07-23T12:26:11+00:00

Jesus Christ, so ignorant...

Evrathiel · 2017-07-23T07:33:54+00:00

"Honey you know that coworker I told you about? Yeah we were out drinking and dancing together and it was getting late so I crashed at his place but it was a small apartment had like only one bed so we ended up sleeping together, but we were a little tipsy so his dick slipped inside my vagoo by accident and it got big and stuck inside so he pushed it in and out trying to get it out and when he got it out there was this warm, sticky liquid dripping off inside me, but I didnt enjoy it and it was kinda an accident and I love you and we had broken up with you anyway so it doesn't count as cheating. Yours is bigger anyway, like, possibly. I love you sooooo much and want to have your baby <3 <3 <3"

Title	I have a gut feeling...
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Upvotes	21
Comments	57
Date	July 22, 2017 10:14 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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