I have premature ejaculation, GF isn't really patient about it

bittr_n_swt · 2016-03-27T20:28:45+00:00

fix it fast or she's gonna branch swing

silly_bird · 2016-03-28T00:08:35+00:00

Try those extended pleasure condoms, they have something in them that reduces sensitivity.

cobalt172 · 2016-03-27T20:05:06+00:00

In my experience girls don't have patience for it because we men have to be perfect in every way....

Might as well just cut your losses now because she's just gonna leave for a dude that doesn't have those problems anyway

SilentDeadlyKiller · 2016-03-28T01:34:00+00:00

Kegel exercises to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles. Do them
I don't know what your porn consumption is like but it may be good to up it a bit, to desensitize yourself so you don't cum as fast
Thicker condoms will dull the sensation = cum slower
The loss of boner thing is nervousness. She's not helping by being a bitch about your issues
If all else fails, it may be good for you to get a side piece to practice on to get over your issues. Try tinder/craigslist if you don't have any slutty friends to enlist for help. You may be morally opposed to it but it's something to consider.
Edging. Look it up and do it. Train your body to cum slower by changing your masturbation habits. This is the most important thing on the list.

DrNextAHoe · 2016-03-27T20:46:32+00:00

How long are we talking here?

MrTrueKillah · 2016-03-27T21:27:38+00:00

Go in like an animal. Manhandle that bitch, put legs on your shoulder, eat that bitch.

Or maybe sex just isn't your thing.

ouselesso · 2016-03-27T22:45:01+00:00

Try drinking a glass of wine before hand, sets a tone and helps calm the nerves.

bonekeeper · 2016-03-28T02:17:45+00:00

Take some cialis to get your performance anxiety out of the way and kickstart your confidence in bed with her. You can buy it very cheap on the Internet, PM me if you need.

69petra · 2016-03-28T06:30:45+00:00

Read this in its entirety: There are two types of pre-mature ejaculations. 1. Internal 2. External. External: If you have sensitive "D", then use a cream that has "Lignocaine" in it. Apply it at least an hour before doing it. Condom also works. Internal: If you are sensitive from inside, then you will need medicine that slows down internal response. Like "Cipralex". Depending upon your sensitivity, you may need to take it for a months or so and then as needed. Be careful when you use it, it may cause some deformity in lever. Extensive use may create some eye problem as well. Off course you can always use all three in combination. For loosing the erection use penis ring. This will keep your penis hard enough or extended period of time. Penis ring will hurt when you will get the erection. Use "Lignocaine" cream to de-sensitize the area. Keep trying, it will take time for you to get use to it. It is important that you are able to satisfy your SO, otherwise you will never have a satisfy relationship.

bigdickedtyrone · 2016-03-28T02:48:28+00:00

there's an immediate solution....

take anti-depressant pills. They lower your libido but they make you last long, like for hours.

I have a premature ejaculation problem also. I last only like 2-3 minutes. Then I took the medications and I was lasting so long I couldn't even cum.

Go to a doctor and tell them you suffer from depression and they'll give you a prescription for SSRI's. Pop one pill and you will feel the effects immediately.

Professor_Red · 2016-03-28T05:12:22+00:00

Make sure not to tense any muscles or harbor any tension(Ie in missionary go on your forearms instead of extended arms), and focus on your breathing(deep, rhythmic belly breathes)

Thewelshpill · 2016-03-27T20:06:28+00:00

press down on your perineum when you start to orgasm, you will orgasm but won't ejaculate and thus sustain an. give it some practice while masturbating.

Title	I have premature ejaculation, GF isn't really patient about it
Author	FarOrAMess
Upvotes	4
Comments	18
Date	March 27, 2016 8:01 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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