Identifying red flags

comcain · 2020-05-02T21:09:25+00:00

I'm not sure about red flags, it depends a lot what you're into. I will say she's all too typical.

I''d look carefully at her parents. Are they still married? Does she have a good relationship with them? Daddy issues?

Does she have any tattoos?

Can she cook and do laundry?

Is she a feminist? (Total black flag on that one).

What's her body count? The higher the body count, the higher a chance she'll cheat / divorce you.

It goes on and on. I believe the sidebar has a list of things to watch out for like Borderline behavior.

Good luck but I don't think she's The One, brother.

Cheers

Noodlesoupe2 · 2020-05-02T22:02:24+00:00

Do you like hanging with her or not? You don’t choose a girl based off a checklist. Unless there’s signs of crazy or daddy issues or something serious like that benign things like liking shopping shouldn’t prevent you from being with a girl you like.

ShineOnHomie · 2020-05-03T00:19:12+00:00

I dated a girl once who was into Love and Hip-Hop. She was a cute chick, but it didn't work out. It wasn't because of her love for reality TV, we just didn't vibe well together.

go with the flow, and if you don't vibe with her then leave.

EDIT: spelling.

RomulusTurbo · 2020-05-02T21:46:16+00:00

Reality TV is for shallow and vapid idiots. The only people worse than the people watching are the "contestants" themselves. Plus, it's not as real as they make it look at all!

MindlessCalendar · 2020-05-02T23:07:27+00:00

Not red flags, but it does mean she is an unintelligent, low value girl.

Don't know why it matters though. You are just talking to her. Come back when you have been fucking her for 6+ months and she is the one pushing for commitment. Then we can talk about red flags.

mr4kino · 2020-05-03T00:52:50+00:00

It means she is "not like the other girls" (read extremely low value female).

Meloxian · 2020-05-03T14:18:41+00:00

Tell her you like eating out also, then tell her to meet you at your house so you can discuss this fascination further, then eat out her pussy, and then bust a nut, and then leave and never talk to her again. Simple

Hyperdude · 2020-05-03T02:35:28+00:00

shopping and eating out at fancy places as her top 2 hobbies. (Of her own cash)

She has her own money, she can do whatever the fuck she wants with it. why are you concern about how she spends HER CASH?!? Unless it's you spending the money on her don't fucking worry about it. Also, you care about what shows she watches? Should I get red flags for watching Football?

BNEDub · 2020-05-03T06:50:09+00:00

She sounds boring as but that's not exactly rare... Does it matter what her hobbies are to you though? Unless you plan on going shopping and fancy restauranting with her it kinda seems like a non-issue.

Title	Identifying red flags
Author	ZaidOBaba
Upvotes	5
Comments	13
Date	May 2, 2020 8:19 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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