If AWALT....

machimus · 2016-04-17T19:26:41+00:00

That's not what AWALT means. There are plenty of posts on it, go back and reread them.

Wel108 · 2016-04-17T20:17:03+00:00

You have a lot of reading to still do my friend. Go to marriage red pill sub reddit, and read the required reading material. All of it. Nothing of what you just said is correct. You're stuck in the anger/bargaining phase.

If you're a valuable enough man, and assuming that you chose a fairly traditional woman to marry you should be ok as long as you own your shit and be a man. But this little male hamster that you got going on right now is a one way street for her to cheat. Because if you're asking this on here, then you're definitely portraying that same thing to her, and they can smell the insecurity on you from a mile away.

youcantdenythat · 2016-04-17T19:26:08+00:00

First off, AWALT doesn't mean all women are the same. Some will be more likely to branch-swing than others. Hopefully you date someone long enough to determine if she is a big swinger.

To answer your question as stated, A or D but here's a better option:

E) Maintain high-enough SMV that she probably won't find a higher branch to swing-to and pick a girl who rarely or never branch-swings. Both of these are hard but not impossible.

Realize, however, you will probably need to fuck a bunch of frogs before you find a princess.

JimFury · 2016-04-17T19:21:54+00:00

None of those options are proper. Lots of guys get into LTR's. The only people who say no to ltrs are guys who either fail at them or anger phase guys. Ltrs are fine if you've upped your smv and have a great life that a chick would want to be a part of. This idea that chicks are always constantly cheating isn't an alpha mindset it's a sky is falling mentality.

drqxx · 2016-04-18T01:13:57+00:00

E. Be the catch.

My girl is mine because she sees me lifting and getting stronger. She sees me with our kids and her heart swoons. I take her out on date like I just met her. And most importantly I fuck her brains out. I'm about to have a second son. Woot! So you just have to be the best you that you can be. If I can do it I know you cab.

abcd_z · 2016-04-17T19:40:53+00:00

I became strictly non-monogamous. No need to worry about Chad stealing my girl if I never settle down with any of my plates.

ThrowingMyslfOutther · 2016-04-18T03:11:46+00:00

There are ~150,000 unicorns out there, give or take 150,000

http://i.imgur.com/xssPSek.png

But it is statistically possible to find a woman that won't cheat, for quite a while. But something will end the relationship, either your SMV goes up and you lose interest in someone that doesn't better themselves, or you lose SMV, and they leave you, branch swinging. It's only your time, until it's not.

cheeky_throwaway101 · 2016-04-17T18:54:30+00:00

D. Never get into an LTR, always keep spinning plates.

Title	If AWALT....
Author	MentalOnslaught
Upvotes	7
Comments	29
Date	April 17, 2016 6:53 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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E. Be the catch.