I'm a very sensitive guy.

cholomite · 2016-05-19T16:19:35+00:00

Post your pic on a 4chan "roast me" thread

HelloImRIGHT · 2016-05-19T15:14:26+00:00

Lift, study, be confident. Care about what you're doing in YOUR life way more than you care about what anyone thinks about you.

Have some kind of mission. Do what you want to do, and fuck everything else. Once you care about what you're doing more than anything else, confidence will attract people.

Surfincloud9 · 2016-05-19T15:35:43+00:00

I've always worried about what people thought of me. I'd take shit to heart. You need to wake up every morning and repeat to yourself don't take things personally and try to live it. Obviously you will screw up quite a bit but over time you will see yourself not taking things personally at all.

Don't do drugs. I escaped my situation by doing opiates and before I knew it I spent 6 years going nowhere and shooting up dope. Not fun. Just lift, meditate and read good books that work on self realization and self help. A couple good ones

The Four Agreements, the mastery of love, the five agreements all by Don Miguel Ruiz

Siddharta

Tons of other ones I can't remember

Focus on you and try not to worry about what people think. I still have trouble but now I mostly just do me and not give a fuck. Financial situation is good, I'm a biochemist and extremely ripped/lean/fit

PemBayliss · 2016-05-19T16:03:46+00:00

Yeah. Same here, or at least I used to be.

Start hanging around more men, and fewer women. Start lifting weights. Start exercising and working on your body.

TheStumblingWolf · 2016-05-19T17:12:11+00:00

Realize that what people say and do is a reflection of them and not you. It is entirey beneath you to entertain their critisism. Their musings are pebbles upon your armor.

With that said I do reflect on criticism. I do it by stripping away negativity because it's irrelevant and then analyze and see if they said something I can use to improve myself.

TRP117 · 2016-05-19T18:29:48+00:00

I was a sensitive guy. In some ways I still can be, but I definitely have improved.

I took a job in construction at 18. You'll get yelled at and bitched at. Really toughened me up.
I started lifting, and exercising. Helped me have more confidence in myself.
Just get rejected. Hard. You'll build a shell.

bmer92 · 2016-05-19T20:16:22+00:00

Everytime you wanna open your mouth when someone critisizes you or busts your balls dont. Everytime someone hurts your feelings stand in silence and keep a straight face. Everytime you dont get what you want say nothing or say "ok" when you dont hear what you want. Everytime she chooses chad over you hit the weights for another set til you hit a negative.

EGOtyst · 2016-05-19T21:16:05+00:00

Why do you hate yourself?

Title	I'm a very sensitive guy.
Author	whatdoidoreddithelp
Upvotes	3
Comments	13
Date	May 19, 2016 3:04 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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