Im back with another Tinder question in real time

Andrew54321 · 2019-10-20T01:40:52+00:00

Text her. Escalate to a meet up. Keep it light and playful.

Do: use the 2/3rds rule in text length and in number of messages

Don’t: use the 2/3rds rule in time between replies.

somejerseydude · 2019-10-20T01:45:25+00:00

You have to strike while the iron is hot on tinder because Chad Thundercock is always one swipe away. If your schedule allows always try to go for a same/next day meetup

somejerseydude · 2019-10-20T02:05:54+00:00

Be careful inviting anybody off tinder over before meeting in a public place.

But I’d try to get her out for a drink/coffee tonight close to your/her place then escalate as usual and suggest a nightcap at hers/yours

MattyAnon · 2019-10-20T14:50:20+00:00

I said "phone #?" and she gave it right away.

I'm suspicious, seems too easy.

She gave you her phone number..... text her with "I'm blah from XYZ online dating place". When she responds wait an hour and say "Gonna call you in 5". Then call her.

When you call...... lead the convo..... don't ask questions about her..... tell her random (slightly awesome) stuff about your day, don't directly answer her questions, wait till she relaxes a little, then tell her to join you Saturday at your place. Whatever she says, change the subjects... if it was a yes, tell her at the end you'll text her details.

ncstaterepted · 2019-10-20T01:43:54+00:00

Text her and start figuring out logistics. Where she lives and where u live is a good start. Good luck

Statistical_Evidence · 2019-10-20T02:59:11+00:00

Tinder is easy if she's matched you she is already DTF. Try not to be a complete sperg. You can run game and be doing high calculations in your head all night about the perfect word:word ratio or the pitch of your voice or any of the hundreds of PUA advice that is BS.

**OR**

You could just talk, and escalate physically.

Either option has the same chance of getting you laid.

afterthe_fapocalypse · 2019-10-20T03:10:54+00:00

you're not a sperg. your last edit shows you're an alpha. you don't fucking care. up top, bro. you're like me in that you just don't know your way around online, and even dating. I've had a lot of gfs but running this RP stuff is so new.

[deleted] · 2019-10-20T17:38:40+00:00

Don’t talk too much. Say things that make you stronger, not weaker. Sexually escalate as quickly as possible.

Sounds like it’s more of a don’t screw this up, than needing to push it over the finish line.

If it were me, I’d have her come over, talk a bit with the CBD in sight, then tell her it’s time for your rub with a joke about a happy ending.

suqadiq420 · 2019-10-20T01:40:53+00:00

Pretty sure she’s down to fuck. Wait until next thursday/friday next week and contact her. Ask what day she’s free that weekend and don’t flirt over text. Keep your eye on the endgoal but don’t be thirsty about it.

Title	Im back with another Tinder question in real time
Author	ncstaterepted
Upvotes	14
Comments	47
Date	October 20, 2019 1:34 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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