I'm quitting TRP until I make real improvements

RPtruthe · 2017-03-17T10:55:56+00:00

I'm enthused that my post inspires you to take action. My post wasn't a rail against TRP nor was it calling for a boycott. Rather, my post was meant to inspire readers to apply what they read and be smart with time management. Go out on a Friday and Saturday night instead of reading about how to go out on a Friday and Saturday night. People treat TRP like it's Netflix, and it has become a form of passive entertainment.

Don't quit TRP, just be smart about how much time you invest into reading and commenting on the posts. If it's Friday or Saturday night, go out. But if it's Sunday morning, you've just finished your morning run and you need a break, then by all means read up on TRP.

Contribute to TRP in the form of field reports. By writing, you internalize what you learn. Set a goal for yourself that you will go out Friday and Saturday nights, regardless of how much you feel like staying in. If you are about losing weight, make capable goals like losing one or two pounds a week and going to the gym at least three times a week.

Set goals for yourself by writing them down and sticking them on your wall or making them your phone background. Somewhere where you will see them every day. Set time limits on how much time you spend reading TRP. Actually do what TRP advises.

TRP is your sexual strategy coach. There to guide you. But unless you're taking action, that guidance is ultimately meaningless and you're just wasting your time.

Aaren_Augustine · 2017-03-17T07:58:29+00:00

Buy Athol Kays' Mindful Attraction Plan (used to be called Male Action Plan). It helps you rack and stack your "MAP" to a better you SHOULD you feel you need it.

And with that, most people stall because they don't have a mission. So what's yours?

Bigblackbuck73 · 2017-03-17T14:29:15+00:00

TRP is like anything else in life, it's all about balancing your input and output. You can read all damn day and it don't mean a damn thing unless you act.

Read, Learn, Lift, Act

kruxofthemimed · 2017-03-17T12:38:23+00:00

Here's a goal worth pursuing: become a whole foods plant based eater. It is the healthiest diet possible, will increase your longevity and youth, and in general will make you so much healthier and happier. Lots of beans, veggies, kale, fruit, kale, nuts, seeds, kale, and whole grains. Good luck

[deleted] · 2017-03-17T08:47:50+00:00

You shouldn't frame this as UNTIL you make improvements because changes come by very slowly and are unnoticeable over a short period.

Set a time frame (3-4 months). Define categories and then specific goals within each category. For example if I want to improve my physical conditioning, I may divide this in S/B/D and how long it takes me to run 20k.

Improving the way you frame problems and issues in your life is much more difficult. Start reading books, take the Classics, read on Stoicism, read Robert Greene, forget about game at the moment. Keep a journal and everyday you write what problems you had, how you approached or could have approached the problem. After 4 months you will look back to the early days of your journal and find some things ridiculous.

RedBikerMouse · 2017-03-17T14:41:38+00:00

Don't fall in the trap I did and make a visit once a week, shorting posts by top - week.

Ubiquitous-Toss · 2017-03-17T15:17:00+00:00

Seriously. Just start lifting if you haven't yet. It will add some of the needed discipline to your life making any other adjustments easy. Every change yiu make you need to take one day at a time. It seriously takes only 30 days of following a rhythm to add something to your permanent schedule.

mickey__ · 2017-03-17T17:29:15+00:00

What u gonna do? Your plan?

do_it_or_leave · 2017-03-17T19:55:32+00:00

Books provide more value if you want to spend time reading.

You should come here looking for cues about what you should learn next.

mrHappyPotatoe · 2017-03-17T08:26:44+00:00

You cant quit. You already went throw a rabbit hole. Now theres no going bavk dude. You know the truth and it will haunt you the rest of your life untill you do something about it.

WolfAlphaDad · 2017-03-17T14:37:57+00:00

"Missions" aren't bogus. Read the sidebar article about setting and achieving goals. You have this drive to improve but your stayed way of getting there is to quit TRP. You're being counter productive. However, I applaud you for realizing your drive. You just need to learn how to focus it

Title	I'm quitting TRP until I make real improvements
Author	nopeimnothere
Upvotes	16
Comments	23
Date	March 17, 2017 7:42 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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