Anyone else deal with this? Recently, everything started to click with me and I've started doing really well with women. So well, in fact, that I feel like an utter complete fraud. Even though I've improved myself in various ways, I'm still pretty insecure. I portray a stoic and confident image, and although I am becoming more confident, I often laugh at the absurdity of my conquests. Is there a point where you aren't faking it anymore and you become what you've presented yourself to be? Sometimes I feel like my success is attributed to smoke and mirrors.