In a LTR, getting constant shit tests

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-12-23T23:36:40+00:00

Your frame is fucked. You're tolerating her bullshit because "shes hot and consistent pussy"? That's some blue pill shit.

She is constantly testing you because she senses weakness and you're slipping.

This may be too late already but I'd pull back a bit and start some light dread. Learn to hold frame too.

Also, you shouldn't have LTR'd a crazy chick.

SirKolbath · 2019-12-23T22:31:17+00:00

Withdraw attention. No woman is hot enough to deal with this level of constant shit testing. If she doesn't straighten up, dump her ass.

palsnotkcots · 2019-12-23T23:39:15+00:00

Withdraw attention, even fat girls that think they’re the shit will do this constantly

fuddubandha · 2019-12-23T22:55:59+00:00

Dude, you don't have constant access to pussy. Its your turn. You are replaceable and she will take you out of your frame and ditch you.

Keep in mind - it's your turn

lolomotif12 · 2019-12-23T23:00:12+00:00

Sounds like you will be a broken man until you realise you should have acted sooner. Dont be so desperate for pussy and grow some balls.

theUnBannableHulk · 2019-12-23T23:20:31+00:00

Lol even slaying thots doesn’t beat the beta out of someone.

Constant shit testing? Bitch the first time she should’ve tested you, you should’ve checked her in a way that she would not have tested you again.

You need to work on your inner game, that is why she is testing you regularly because she feels that you are not strong enough or dominant enough to handle her and she’s correct.

If you want to learn with this relationship prepare to have your heart broken, maybe you can salvage it.

What do you need : to start smacking her verbally and psychologically over the slightest thing you find disrespectful. based on what you have written you have put her on a pedestal and this is going to be extremely hard for you as you will be afraid of losing her.

Been there, done that, sold the T-shirt.

Unless you realize that you are more valuable than her you will never gain her respect.

30dirtyfingers · 2019-12-24T09:48:02+00:00

Yeah, shit tests all of the time. never gonna stop, expecially if shes hot. Get nice and cozy with them.

Lets put it this way. Shes your LTR? That means to her, you repeatedly pass her shit test to the extent that she sticks with you (unless your truly that beta and shes using you). Which means to me that you have the right stuff to pass her tests within you. Unless you have been putting up a front the entire time you met her, you got this. She knows it. Shes just testing to see if you know it. And making sure you never forget this.

This is how my plate is. Before coming here, I had no shot with her mostly because I didnt believe I had what it took (I actually didnt, but you couldnt tell her that.....STFU works wonders. I learned ALOT here that holds me down every day). She constantly shit tests me...to the point that it feels like she breathes shit tests (I noticed that quite a few of them are unconscious). There are times when this shit rattles my frame and I do my best STFU and have mostly managed to come out of it with no loss.

Then one day I thought to myself "She seems like she wants me to own her, so If i trust my masculine instincts, I cant go wrong. And if i do, so what, I will bag another bitch just as hot. If I look back at how I handle this one.....and she only submits to dominance...if I can deal with her, I can bag another bitch just as how." Look at my previous posts and see how I talk about her...my plate. You will hear alot of uncertainty when it comes to her but I have been doing a hell of a job so far. It seems like she wants me to pass her shit tests so that she can constantly feel like she can submit to me. I notice everytime my frame gets shaky, shit tests get more intense. I get them sooo often that I literally laugh when she throws them at me, which causes her to laugh too, which makes her step into my frame (didnt know this was the effect i was having). It has had a major effect on my game with other girls. This girl is tough so handling her has taught me how to handle other broads. So if this one brakes, I have the resources to pick up and spin others.

second-last-mohican · 2019-12-23T23:25:26+00:00

Give examples buddy

NightwingTRP · 2019-12-24T01:17:42+00:00

First:

She's quite high on the crazy/hot scale so this might be part of the reason,

If you've LTR'd a crazy chick you deserve nothing but scorn.

Assuming you're not a complete fucking imbecile, you're getting shit tested because you don't appear to be the right level of attractiveness for her. Raise your SMV. If that is not the issue, then you're shit at leading. Learn to lead and command. My Commanding 101 piece can be useful for this. I get a shit test every now and then... but it's rare because she's led well and she knows I don't like being shit tested.

Sylvester_Sterone · 2019-12-24T01:50:06+00:00

Early stages have a shit ton of tests as the woman scrutinizes. That’s why you don’t give commitment right away.

SeasonedRP · 2019-12-25T17:22:11+00:00

No, this isn't to be expected in an LTR. Occasionally, sure, but not constantly. It won't get better the longer you are together. Since you have scarcity and can't bring yourself to dump her, you can look forward to her treating you increasingly worse, seeking attention from other men, and eventually dumping you. Sucks to be you.

Title	In a LTR, getting constant shit tests
Author	hqckbjpxhtbvpqfw
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Date	December 23, 2019 10:30 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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