Just discovered this sub and seen a lot of sad stories that guys have gone through. A few minutes of pleasure has lead to life long changes in their lives and having to experiences lot of shit from the people they have had a child with.

Is sex worth the risks? Is it possible to abstain from sex? Stick to porn or distract yourself with other things? Personally, I have decided i don't want to have causal sex, due to the possible outcomes that have happened to some of you guys. I've had one long term relationship, but feel (at this moment in my life anyway), I'm not up for having a family life. So I choose not to do it, as I don't want to risk creating a life, and being tied to someone i don't know.