I recently had an ex fuck buddy come back into my life, she revealed later on that she didn't want anything sexual or romantic with me. I was fine with that so we are "friends" or whatever in that we talk every now and then, and hung out twice before she started dating this dude. I thought about the timing of it, and how she came right out and said she wasn't interested in me sexually or romantically thought that maybe she wanted to either A) Have me as backup in case it didn't work out with him or B) Wanted to use dread game to squeeze commitment out of the guy.

I always see ulterior motives in everything, it could be that she genuinely wants to be my friend but her actions however do not show it. I do not use that word loosely as most. Girls have pulled this same shit on me like bringing up exes and shit or guys she would fuck if not talking to me. It's like I know what you're doing and it isn't making me jealous it's making me want you less so thanks.

There was never anything serious between her and I though we talked about it. She started dating this poor guy last month I think. She's not relationship material for a few good reasons. She has a kid and single mom, she cheated on the baby daddy with a threesome during a three year relationship he took her back (he's beta af nerdy gamer type of guy with a small penis just took care of her), and she uses drugs pretty heavily. After realizing this she was instant fwb status. This is not a girl you date gentlemen. We fucked the second night of knowing each other.

Basically she told me the boyfriend is uncomfortable with us being friends. Hmm wonder why? What do you think?