Is this path for me?

the_savvyhead · 2016-05-04T17:48:42+00:00

Quite frankly, there is still value in learning things like female psychology, shit tests, masculine polarity, etc... And learning the Game / PUA stuff will probably help with conversational tactics etc in that area.

Most guys in TRP seem anti-LTR so I haven't seen a lot of good advice if you want the whole marriage deal. You will have to walk a balance between AF and BB, keeping control and attraction while also showing you can be reliable.

If you don't want to be a player but want to find the right girl, it's much harder. Studying game will help you look out for the types of girls you don't want and will help you more easily select but it's still hard.

You have some advantages if you're a serious Christian seeking a serious Christian wife. First, there still is some stigma against divorce and focus on stable nuclear families. Second you can look for someone into CDD or similar. Basically just look for someone into traditional male-led marriages which will help you not fight the painful downstream of feminism.

Short Answer: Your wife will shit test you, your wife will try to beta-ize you, etc so learning social / conversational game and how to respond will still be very helpful...

Edit: If you don't want to lie, don't lie, but do learn to frame what you say, selectively present things, etc. This is grey area but it's important.

Skafeine · 2016-05-04T18:47:06+00:00

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RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2016-05-04T18:24:31+00:00

I am a Christian and Red Pill.

Worry about yourself first. Lift, get lean, get established financially, get your own life together and in order, THEN worry about game.

The whole concept of sex is very touchy as a Red Pill Christian, especially someone like me who will never get married. We believe sex outside of marriage is wrong. I believe this. I've been put in the awkward situation of escalating and the woman dropping her panties and me having to back out because my morals and concious overrode me. I've also had times where I didn't back out and went through with it and had to deal with the guilt afterward. We are human, we are all sinners. It's best not to put yourself in those situations, but ask for forgiveness and try to do better next time. I've been able to abstain from sex for almost 2 years now despite having many chances to indulge.

Let me tell you this - AWALT. Even the devout Christian girls - trust me. I am 28 and have been burned by many "Christian" women. Even the ones who seemed ultra devoted. They are all hypergamus, they just hide it better. So don't go thinking that everything will be OK if you just find a good Christian woman.

claptilley · 2016-05-04T19:29:29+00:00

No way. Part of your frame is who you are. Stick to your frame above all else. TRP applies to married life. Pick up the rational male books, and the hays translation to meditations. I have always thought of plate theory and multiple sex partners as a symptom of reaching your goals. It's very short sighted to think the end result is more sex. The end result is being the best person you can be. Playing your strengths, and finding a mate with less hypergamous tendancies are all values you can add to your goals. The bible and the red pill both treat our bodies and minds like temples.

I can't remember exactly but in the rational male there is a blogger mentioned who applies TRP to faith. Lift, Read, and keep rocking your frame.

Wavyes · 2016-05-04T19:35:24+00:00

"He for God only, she for God in him" - John Milton

Christianity (well Milton's interpretation of it at least) is redpill dude. I've never read the bible, but I read Paradise Lost twice, and the main takeaway I got was - be content with not knowing everything, accept the world for what it is, and do not give in to your desires. Simply do your duties and responsibilities (listening to God and your family) and you will be the happiest man in the world.

Satan gave in cause his weakness was his greed for power. Eve gave in cause her weakness was her vanity. Adam gave in cause his weakness was Eve herself and thus decided to share the same fate with her after biting the apple.

This dichotomy of desires vs duties is also the central moral theme of ancient Indian philosophy, namely layed out in the Bhagavad-gita. I'm not religious, but this stuff has influenced my behavior and outlook tremendously and I feel like I'm a lot more 'spiritual' now that I try to live by this philosophy.

quicklogaccount · 2016-05-04T19:42:58+00:00

Being a Christian, you might have the whole "What's Ethical? And why it is Ethical?" thing figured out. RP is amoral, its theory is heavily derived from evolutive psychology and will definitely not fit Christian ethic.

A step further, there are a lot of preachy guys here but you'll notice something. MOST of them aren't preaching a gospel, they're deriving a strategy from a theory in order to reach a goal. Some care to explain the steps, some don't. You can avoid a LOT of annoying preaching by being concise and clear on your questions. Something pretty usual, for instance, is this:
Background: Movie toxic relationship with a demon spawn.
Question: How do I fix it?
You'll have these answers:
-By exorcising her. GTFO.
-You can do this, but you really should GTFO.
-By doing this.

Other than that people are open to discussion but not that open if they spot you're just set on doing everything to render them wrong. On the main TRP sub you might find some discussions regarding the very topic of religiousness and RP.

RPFlame · 2016-05-04T21:40:04+00:00

Knowing how to interact with people, regardless of sex, is always good. You don't have to be someone who sleeps with multiple women if you don't want to but some of the concepts discussed here could apply also to your hypothetical wife.

You will know what to do when you have a dead bedroom situation, how to handle her mood swings, read between the words. And your dread game (assuming that she will also have Christian tenets) will be as simple as keeping yourself sharp, fit and good looking. Just the idea that her man is someone desirable excites women.

TRP is a tool box, or rather a salad bar.

Title	Is this path for me?
Author	Skafeine
Upvotes	6
Comments	23
Date	May 4, 2016 5:19 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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