Just like TRP predicted, I got the "2-Month-Post-Breakup-Saturday-Morning-Apology" text. This means she fucked some dude right?

FREECRACK6 · 2019-04-06T16:10:01+00:00

Doesn’t matter what she did as long as you are getting what you want

Small_Cock_Simon · 2019-04-06T16:14:43+00:00

In my opinion you’re on the right track. She probably did fuck someone but it doesn’t matter. for sure you can have her as a plate in the future.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-04-06T22:39:01+00:00

Don't plate ex's.

You are on the verge of oneitis.

This bitch disrespected you and lost attraction. Read the Iron Rules.

She's not open to being plated, she's seeking closure. Don't give her any. The dude's saying to text her back are acting like simps.

Seriously, move on.

Big_Red_suppository · 2019-04-06T16:22:20+00:00

I would mark the bingo card "picked up girl a grocery store" and move on. The contact from an ex does typically mean shes looking at entering a new relationship and didnt get proper closure. The hamster needs food to keep the wheel spinning.

In my experience fucking an ex that's "back in town" is more for checking off the box of non-consecutive fucks because they also use that as a form of closure (ie gave him a taste let's see how much he will chase). So keep that in mind. As for the hair dryer, you can use it as a lower power heat gun if you need to loosen adhesives.

HurricaneHugues · 2019-04-06T23:24:37+00:00

It means you're a phaggot for coming here to make a post about shit you shouldn't give a fuck about. Who cares what she does? Move on.

"and even just last night went solo to a bar and got a number, though bar girls seem to flake."

Thats because they want to date you. They're at the bar to find a guybattractive enough to fuck them that night. Stop thinking aboit getting numbers and seeing them later. You being with them at the bar is your first date, even if u just met 3 seconds ago. So act like it. Escalate and go for the kill on that same night.

"seems like there is an opportunity here to use her as a plate in the next few months when she ultimately comes back to town, although I realize that is a lack of abundance talking (still haven't quite hit the stride as far as getting plates, so have had a 2 month dry spell.)."

Shut up. Shut the fuck up. This is not an opportunity for u to plate shit. Your mindset is weak and you lack abundance. This is an opportunity for you to learn to move the fuck on with your life amd not dig in the trash. You racoon motherfuckers are killing me. Let it go, it's done. She's fishin for attention, to see if she still has u by the balls. And clearly she still somewhat does since you're still making posts about her on the internet. Do not engage in any form whatsoever. You might as well delete that text thread of hers, as well as her number, just so u don't do some dumb shit and beta backpeddle. Just move on dude. Delete, and hard ghost.

Small_Cock_Simon · 2019-04-06T22:09:18+00:00

“Glad to hear you’re doing well. Keep in touch”

Sounds like enough for now. Good stuff though and I’m no casanova I just fucked a fat girl today

But I need more community service on my resume and I’m getting creative

throwawayycheyeah · 2019-04-07T07:56:50+00:00

Maybe. Doesnt matter much though cause you are moving on and up to better things bro.

Acerhand · 2019-04-07T08:55:48+00:00

Dont. You still have a lot to learn. She has a lot of red flags and it sounds from her behaviour and story you mismanaged her and broke frame often or went beta.

Plating an ex is not easy. Maybe you can in the future. If you do you need to sent HARD ground rules, not even ones you communicate but ones you covertly enforce. Can you do that when she will test them hardcore to reestablish the past dynamic? Or will you bend and let her get more than a plate gets?

It’ll be 10x harder than a new plate.

She fucked some guy, probably. Text doesnt mean it but probably did. She is likely on her down side of the period and pining for familiarity, comfort and more beta traits. She wants cuddles and a boyfriend. Hence reaching out.

The way she texted is a big res flag too. Lmao. She already establishing a frame where she is forgiving YOU and like she is granting you a favour and permission to enter her life after what you did wrong. Lmao. Bitch is crazy

Dont text her back.

Title	Just like TRP predicted, I got the "2-Month-Post-Breakup-Saturday-Morning-Apology" text. This means she fucked some dude right?
Author	thrownawayisland
Upvotes	9
Comments	27
Date	April 6, 2019 4:03 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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"and even just last night went solo to a bar and got a number, though bar girls seem to flake."

"seems like there is an opportunity here to use her as a plate in the next few months when she ultimately comes back to town, although I realize that is a lack of abundance talking (still haven't quite hit the stride as far as getting plates, so have had a 2 month dry spell.)."