"Let's have a break"

swignewton · 2017-01-19T23:44:27+00:00

Do NOT "game her back". It's a waste of your time. You will never be in a serious relationship with her. Don't even pretend it's just for sex, because unless her pussy is gold plated, it's not worth the time and effort when there are other girls.

My condolences to you for feeling hurt. I guarantee in a few years you'll be able to laugh at how trivial this all seems.

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2017-01-19T23:57:19+00:00

Proper response is to say "OK" and game other women.

Imjustkidding · 2017-01-20T00:06:46+00:00

You obviously have a pretty solid understanding of trp philosophy based off of the language in your post, but there's something that should've been at the forefront of your mind even more than "Welp, I guess I'm actually a beta". And that is the idea of abundance mentality.

The real "bitter rp truth" in this is that you made the mistake of getting hung up on one girl. You kinda forgot about the millions and millions of hotter and more deserving girls right behind her.

I understand the loss of your vcard adds some value to this chick, but you shouldn't be beating yourself up over this. Carry on forward, and don't look at this as "what else should I have done?" but instead ask yourself "what else can I do in the future?"

The only way you're going to get better is through practice, and the more practice (read: girls) the better.

Remember that YOU are the prize. You've got a long road ahead so keep your head up.

The__Tren__Train · 2017-01-20T03:58:40+00:00

would you do now

UP THE DOSE

dopefits · 2017-01-20T02:36:18+00:00

Let's have a break=I want to ride the cock carousel. Don't take her back after she's done riding it.

Also "I have a boyfriend" is often a shittest and even if it wasn't you could've still went sfter her.

EntitledChadJThunder · 2017-01-20T05:31:07+00:00

Quit being a pussy man. You banged her and got ur first knotch count, life is your greatest teacher. As long as you learned something, whatever...

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-01-20T07:02:44+00:00

Dude, sometimes shit just happens. Go "no contact" and start opening other women. Congratulations, you're in the game, now.

ETA: This is why I recommend plating multiple women. That way one woman doesn't walk out the door with your pussy supply. It leads to a better, more calm and centered life for you as a man.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2017-01-20T01:47:04+00:00

Correct response: "Oh thank god, that's a relief! Look, you're a nice girl, but I feel like at my age I need to get more experience and sow my wild outs."

Act like you're doing both parties a favor by shoving her off. You won't be wrong. There is nothing less worth your time and attention then a woman who has decided she doesn't want to fuck you

It's not normal or healthy to commit to the first person you have sex with. Everybody needs to have their first big breakup. It's a fucking rite of passage man. It's pretty rare that people who do so end up happy long term.

Guess I wasn't exciting enough, guess I didn't fuck her well enough

Doesn't matter. Self-pity is a total waste of your time. She never belonged to you, it was just your turn. Don't take that fact personally or let it get you down. Women are abundant. Your turn had to end at one point or another.

Instead of blaming yourself, consider that you're a stronger, smarter man for it. Decide what you can learn from it and what things you can do to improve.

FrameWalker · 2017-01-20T00:05:50+00:00

Par for the course keep going well handled. Sometimes you take the L

aurelius_shrugs · 2017-01-20T05:03:56+00:00

Let her have a break forever. Get other girls.

RPthrowaway_007 · 2017-01-20T00:10:01+00:00

There's no point in trying to get her back. Move on. Unfortunately it's easier said than done, but there's no other way.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-01-20T08:46:48+00:00

Stop getting so fucking drunk like a loser, it's pathetic. I remember this one time I was in AC for a bachelor party. I was at the club, was tearing the dance floor up before I went to the bar to get water to hydrate. This absolutely shit faced dyel white dude dressed in khaki pants, boat shoes, and a polo just taps me on my shoulder while holding two shots and asks me to shoot this one with him (trying to hand me the shot). I refused and he insisted a bit until I switched it up on him and told him to get lost. Man was that guy pathetic. I didn't even know the fucking dude, he drank himself silly just so he could say he had fun/did something that might. I could read the desperation in his as he downed those two shots by himself before disappearing in the crowd.

Don't ever be that guy. Stop getting drunk at parties.

Title	"Let's have a break"
Author	yesyesyouwereright
Upvotes	5
Comments	14
Date	January 19, 2017 11:39 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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