Matched with a girl on Tinder. She seemed really interested right from the start, so I told her I'd come by and spend a few nights at her place since I was passing by anyway. No protest, met with a lot of enthusiasm. We flirt over Snapchat and Facebook and a few weeks later I'm at her place.

I fucking love cuddling and I'm in the mindset that I'm gonna spend the coming days like I'm hanging out with my girlfriend. So we spend a lot of the time under a blanket, spooning, watching movies and kissing.

Every night we make out a lot and she repeatedly has to change panties due to how wet she is. Yet, when I try to remove her panties she doesn't let me. Says that after she has sex with a dude, she feels that there's nothing more to do. She grows tired of the dude.

I can tell that her reason for LMR is bullshit. And I'm quite sure that she put up LMR because I was too cuddly. I fell into her frame a few times, but let her qualify herself many more times than that. On the plus side, I held my own frame when she asked if I've been dating a lot lately, if I'm picky with my girlfriends and how many I've slept with.

Did I really set the wrong frame in cuddling so much? If she still refuses sex the next time I see her, I'm cutting her off.