Hey TRP. I'm 23. I'd say I'm decent looking. Was a very popular kid in high school growing up. BUT, I still haven't fucked. A few reasons why:

  1. I'm fucking terrible at picking up hints from girls that are interested in me. There's been so many times where I've realized months after a specific interaction that the girl was actually inviting me to take the lead and close the deal.

  2. I hit a major emotional slump after a high school break up. Basically, it was my AWALT moment and I had trust issues and I began only hitting on fat and ugly (for my standards) girls because they were easier. I've gotten head from many such girls but I've just not been attracted enough to have sex with them.

I've now reached a point where I'm getting my confidence back. Lost a bunch of weight, I look better than ever. But now I'm not sure how I feel about being a virgin at 23. Should I consider paying for it? Or just be patient?