7 month LTR says she is the type of girl who needs a lot of reassurance and says she loves sweet little things that makes me think of her like good morning, good night texts, and calling her babe, baby, baby girl and buying her flowers. She says I don’t provide her with these things. I’ve been very busy focusing on my work and purpose as of late (especially the last 30 days) and haven’t given her much time and attention to her other than a weekly hangout and sex.

I told her that I would try to work on this and communicate with her more throughout the week. She responded by saying “I don’t want you to change who you are to fit what I want. Can I have a few days to think about everything please?”

How should I respond? Soft next? Has she already checked out of the relationship? If I was willing to give her more time and attention like she said she wanted is her excuse even legitimate if she says she needs a few DAYS?