I've been seeing this girl for 5 months now and she's been very respectful throughout. No arguments, no playing weird games, we've both been very straightforward. Constantly having sex, making plans to drink, calling and texting a little almost everyday.

Anyway, this week she mentioned how she's a little freaked by how her plans have started revolving around me and how it's her own doing as I've never asked for it and am completely chill with her doing whatever she likes. I made a mistake by asking her if it's all good and whether she just doesn't feel it anymore about our relationship. She said she doesn't know and it's also that she's had a really off week with her work, parents and everything. Said she just wants to take it easy this week.

She's been texting way less, almost deliberately late and is just acting a little distant. When I did stop giving attention, she did call me that evening just to talk and has been texting me on her own just differently.

My problem is I don't know how to withdraw attention properly. I can acknowledge that maybe she's not into me anymore or is branch swinging or whatever. I just wanna know the best possible way to play this regardless.