LTR cheated

i-am-the-prize · 2021-03-12T14:33:36+00:00

never make an important decision in the heat of passion.

you're hurt, betrayed, ego bruised, angry and upset. your desire to 'hurt' those that hurt you will fade, and can be used as a barometer of how far you are past an event.

the opposite of love isn't hate/hurt, it's apathy. the 'worst' thing you can do to her, if that's your current lens, is actually to move on and forget about her. she would mean nothing to you at that point, worse than giving her rent-free space in your head.

do not wonder why. do not think she picked X over you because of....

think only, that this bitch has shown herself NOT worthy of your Time, Attention, Affection and Resources. Use this as proof to move on.

YOU are your longest LTR, never forget.

PS: just leave, don't talk to her, read this: https://archive.is/ENAtL

VasiliyZaitzev · 2021-03-12T14:49:18+00:00

You spelled “ex-LTR” wrong.

alphaonthecomeup · 2021-03-12T14:33:06+00:00

Facts. You gonna feel defeated for a little bit, but long term you’ve just been set free.

Give it some time and definitely try to land in some new strange soon.

Friends, gym, massages, saunas and traveling helps a lot.

themostgianthorse · 2021-03-12T14:28:42+00:00

With no detail or back story, can’t give you much insight.

I get you’re raw right now. Hang in there. What’s something you may have been neglecting or not pursuing because you were in LTR? Immerse yourself in it.

Ask yourself “what’s the gift in this?”

Infinite_Total_ · 2021-03-12T18:50:19+00:00

Success is the best revenge.

HitTheButtonFrank99 · 2021-03-12T17:25:26+00:00

And she squirmed underneath him while telling him how much bigger and better he was than you.

Move on to the next, stop investing your feelings into woman.

uborka161 · 2021-03-12T14:29:47+00:00

Dump immidiately, and accept depression, sadness, and powerlessness.

KirthWGersen · 2021-03-12T14:06:39+00:00

Maybe she cheated because she really wanted to hurt you.

Sounds like you two are made for each other.

TeddyMGTOW · 2021-03-12T14:24:16+00:00

They all do, its not your fault....

Title	LTR cheated
Author	ricardomhv
Upvotes	0
Comments	16
Date	March 12, 2021 2:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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