LTR Orbiters

Rkingpin · 2019-06-28T09:05:59+00:00

It's about your boundaries. If you tell her to ditch them and she doesnt then you have a problem.

Some guys are secure enough to not let those boys faze them. You can even play them to your advantage by extracting free shit from them ( home delivery of food)

Those guys will do anything for a wiff of puss

mrpthrowa · 2019-06-28T10:19:10+00:00

Every LTR material girl, will indeed have guys wishing she was theirs. IF not you have a fatty buddy.

Every LTR material makes it super clear that she tolerates no orbiters. She'll cut them off, show you (subtly) that she has cut them off, and she will KNOW how to keep them at bay.

She knows what guys want and she knows not to lead them on

opinden · 2019-06-28T11:01:08+00:00

I really don't think all women are like this... I really believe that if she's healthy, happy and secure with herself then she won't have orbiters around.

Orbiters are very common around chicks with cluster B personalities though, this is due to the subconscious fear of abandonment. They're so used to people leaving them that they subconsciously believe all relationships will end and they can't ever be alone which is why they'll always keep orbiters around so they can slide into a relationship straight away.

Also very common with chicks with anxious attachment styles.

mrdeeds1972 · 2019-06-28T15:54:26+00:00

Yes some women play dumb with orbiters and some just are dumb. It's a red flag and she should naturally cut them off. The thing is, even though they might cut them off, they can easily let them back in again.

Don_Draper27 · 2019-06-28T17:49:23+00:00

Every girl has orbiters. Even the non-LTR ones.

Does every girl knowingly use these guys as orbiters? Even the girls who seem really autistic?

I guess in a way. My old roommate is a HB7 and is in a 3 year LTR. She kindly denies any flirtation or gift from her orbiters. The only time she'll accept gifts is for her birthday and she'll end up giving you something back for yours. One time she tried to buy a very large vintage mirror from an old friend of hers. Quality piece. Probably worth hundreds. He gladly drove it to her house and dropped it off and wouldn't accept any money for it. She had to sneak $80 into his pocket.

So there are some decent girls out there but you need to have a very high SMV to obtain this kind of quality in a woman. Old roommates boyfriend is basically Chad. He's resourceful as fuck where he'll find a way to get free admission to a high end club for a large group. He's the most charismatic and social guy I know.

Is it a red flag if your LTR doesn't cut off her orbiters, once she gets exclusive with you?

Yes it could be. One of my exes had a ton of friends. Her household was trailer trash so unless she was home sleeping she would be out with friends. It always bugged me how many guy friends she had but in the 5 years I was with her she never gave any reason to distrust her. Never flirted with any guy and if someone hit on her she would tell me. I don't think she ever accepted a free drink from any guy.

As much as AWALT, there are some girls with decent morals and self respect. Again, the higher your SMV, the better chance you'll have of being able to LTR someone worth LTRing.

Project_Zero_Betas · 2019-06-29T00:27:01+00:00

1) Does every girl knowingly use these guys as orbiters? Even the girls who seem really autistic?

Yes.

2) Is it a red flag if your LTR doesn't cut off her orbiters, once she gets exclusive with you?

Huge red flag. Means she's an attention whore.

Title	LTR Orbiters
Author	TheBleachedTshirt
Upvotes	10
Comments	8
Date	June 28, 2019 8:41 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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