As i work days and my LTR works night shes heading out when bars reopen next week during the day with her lesbian friend. When she talked about it she said shes looking forward to a heavy session with her friend as its been over a year since she could do this. Its likely she’ll be out in the afternoon and evening but home at a sensible hour.

Its unreasonable to expect her to not go out here and there but the fact that its being described as mad ahead if the time is concerning. Ideally se we want to find a unicorn who doesnt like going out drinking or some shit but women these days are worse than men at these things.

I trust her not to fuck up things with me but when alcohol is involved and in social situations i have no idea who she is and what shes capable of. In some ways i’m judging her by my own past drunken shenanigans (outside of this relationship).

Am i being over possessive and controlling by not liking this? I am not going to stop her as i’ll be doing the same given the chance to be fair.