Background: Been going out with my gf for 1 year and 2 months now. Honeymoon phase fading. I went redpill 3 years ago and this is one of my first actual ltr. Shes an ex from 5 years ago.

I had a pullback in the beginning of the relationship and just ignored it and she went back to herself in 2 or 3 days.

Now: Two weeks ago, she changed from replying within minutes to taking 2 to 4 hours, so what did I do?

I pulled back harder but went too hard. I bailed on our dancing classes we used to assist Tuesdays and Thursdays. Instead I switched to Saturdays, and started dating again....AND cut seeing each other to once a week. This was over the course of these last 2 weeks.

I sent her a simple message today as if I wasn't phased by anything and she is still on that pullback replying late af. So I know you will most likely recommend to keep busy etc. Pullback could be because theres another guy, loss of interest or a massive shit test/power grab.

Tbh I'm about to go nuclear and just give it a week before I say I'm not putting up with this bs. Anyone got opinions or knows how to best handle this situation? I know I shouldn't give a fuck and maintain abundance mentality but I see this as a huge disrespect.

Tldr; gf of a year pulled back, I mirrored it and she wont submit but still replies... is this a powergrab?