This is my first real girlfriend, I'm a young guy and although I've been reading TRP off and on for a few years, I haven't thought about it that much for the past 6-8 months.

A bit of background; My girlfriend chased me and initiated most of the intimacy in the early stages of our relationship. We've been together for over a year now and are currently sharing an apartment together because our roommates last year sucked. This whole time she's been super sweet and feminine, didn't give too many shit tests, and very affectionate. However, in the past month, I became suspicious that she was cheating/looking to cheat with male friends, one of whom she was friends with before she met me. Looking back on it im not quite sure why i abruptly suspected this. I guess it was just because she was spending time with them on my own, and i've been talking to BP friends complaining about their gfs cheating, but honestly im not entirely sure.

Anyway, I became really passive-aggressive to her, almost entirely over text though, and although I never directly accused her of cheating or anything specific, I told her she's acting weird and was clearly very butthurt. We'd 'argue' for up to an hour then stop texting. The next day I'd continue behaving as if nothing happened though I'm sure I sounded butthurt despite all my effort not to. This happened 4-5 times during a 3-week span that I was away.

I didnt know this at the time, but im nearly certain that this was the first time ive experienced real jealousy and the urge to mate guard, and i didnt know how to handle it. But thats the past, now im looking for what to do moving forward.

So, what has changed since? Well to start; physicality. I used to hug, grope, cuddle and kiss her all the time and she almost never rejected anything. Now this past week, if I hug her she stands there with arms by her side with a blank expression. Sometimes she'll slowly pull her arms up and squeeze me with the strength of a dying cancer patient; absolutely no effort. We've been sleeping in the same bed, but this week I've make the spare room my room. Though this was my idea, she was in favor of it and since then she rejects any suggestion I make about sleeping together, citing the "heat" as a big problem even though its been basically the exact same for 2 months. I've read here that pulling away sexually is the most profound tell a girl is pulling away / preparing to exit the relationship, so with that being said: she doesn't let me touch her pussy atm. Never, ever had this problem before. For the past week, if I bring my hand close to it she calmly moves my hand to her waist or some other area away from her vag. Shes still blown me twice since tho and both times were her idea if that's worth anything.

Now, I've pulled away as well the past few days. When we do interact its initially similar to normal, then her face becomes straight and she just sits in silence looking in some random direction like she's braindead. Most of the times we've interacted in the past few days, shes initiated it: she comes over to see me and makes one line statements like "ugh i cant focus" or "im so bored" or "what're you doing" then just goes quiet. I truly think I'm behaving normally now because I don't feel any anxiety about these situations. Also, she usually slides in a "why dont you care about me" or something along the lines of "you dont love me you just want ass". What is the correct way to handle these types of situations? What are some example canned responses to these basic questions so i can see some examples?

An interesting twist to this that im sure no one in the comments was expected, is that we've never had sex. Early on we tried a couple times, but i found out that I had a medical issue preventing it from being possible. I've since got that issue fixed and should be able to fuck with no problem, but just havent done it yet. Last year when i found out about this problem it mentally FUCKED me for about 3 months and i think that anxiety is still somewhat in my head just because of how strong and profound the emotions were back then. You might be wondering what we did without sex for a whole fucking year? Lots, and lots of head. I cant count how many blowjobs ive gotten, and ive given her oral as well just not quite as often. I'm mentioning this because i know sex is important and is most definitely a factor for any romantic relationship. But I have a feeling that trying now would be unsuccessful due to the sexual distancing explained above.

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JUST NOW while writing this, she came into my room. I tabbed out of course. She lies on the bed face down with her ass out, wearing just a bra and panties. Now i'm a MAJOR ass guy so usually i walk over and stick my face in it. But this time i just sat at my desk asking her about the dinner shes making atm. after a couple of minutes of chilling, im just talking about other stuff and shes got that dead eye'd stare looking at the wall; she suddenly sits up and says

"whats wrong with you" (which ive never heard before)

I say "wdym?"

she replies "you never give up ass"

I just paused to think for a second, then said "you look like you want some space so im giving it to you".

"when did i say that??" she snapped.

I respond "you just... seem like you could use some. I think space is important to have though"

she stays silent

I ask her "hey whens dinner gonna be ready"

she says "like 20 min"

I say "only 20 min?" I was genuinely expected like 45 min

she sighs and says "whatever. Play your games if you want with you friends" and walks out of the room.

... how was that? I know i telling her the space comment is a good move, but maybe not in this particular situation...

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The most frustrating part is since results are not immediate, for most moves i do, i don't know if they're good or bad! and that's quite frustrating as a beginner RP man. What I *believe* I should be doing in general right now is doing what I want when she comes around (so in this case, going over to her and having her ass as I usually would), be positive and happy during the interactions, then when she pulls away I just let her do that and go on doing my own thing. What do you guys think of this? Am I mistaken?

I've been binge-watching some redpill channels and read half of 'atomic attraction' in the past couple of days and one of the main points they say for implementing dread game is to have other girls in your life. I've been reading redpill content on and off since 2016 and ive never heard of dread game until now. So im trying to learn about it since its apparently a powerful tool for maintaining attraction in LTRs. So the last key question I have for you is this: I have no girls that i talk to outside of my family and my girlfriend at the moment. I recognize this as a big problem, but i have no idea how to fix it with quarantine. I cant use a fucking dating app while in a LTR, and i dont use social media either; by this i mean that i have facebook and instagram but never posted on either. I primarily use snapchat but again; i dont talk to any other girls. I have streaks with some, but theyre either my friends gfs or my gfs friends. None of which I talk to 1 on 1.

With this being said, how can i meet new women during this fucking quarantine? Can i just randomly add people and start talking to them? I don't see that working in my mind.

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The point: I fucked up, now she's pulling away. I think that pulling away myself is the best play and seems to get her coming to see me and behaving less bitchy, but it hasn't reduced the tension at all.

How do I handle these "mix signal" situations? Especially the ones where she acts distant, but also seems to want attention at the same time.

I only quickly edited this post, so I apologize for its lack of structure and rambling. I just want to get some details out there because I don't know how to behave in these situations and I want to fix that. I read about pulling away, mirroring emotions, etc but in practice I'm not sure what to do exactly, or if this is the time to implement these things. I would greatly appreciate any advice, and I just want to learn and better myself as a man. Especially with inner confidence and game.

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Lastly,

If you're going to chastise me for trying to continue this LTR: Fuck right off.

If you're going to roast me for my medical condition (which theoretically is a nonfactor now as it has no impact on my life or sexual life, and I had no control over it developing): again, fuck right off. I'm using that as an anti-token for easy shittest passes.

I had an anti-ltr mindset my entire teen years, and now I want to try one now for the time being. Especially with covid. I'm looking for advice on making the next best move. And continuing to make the next best move until the relationship is either great or fizzles out. Either outcome is fine as long as I played my hand well.

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Thank you.

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tl;dr I became jealous for a short while to my gf of 1.5 years. Never accused her of anything specific and only had "arguments" over text. a couple weeks later, and now shes pulling away from me for the first time. We are now sleeping seperately the past few days, she doesnt let me touch her sexually, and is not interested in physicality. Yet, she comes over to me and wonders why im touching her as i usually do. Im pulling away as well. What should I do about this situation?