Making Her Seek My Validation

alex_de_tampa · 2021-06-08T07:41:58+00:00

Sounds like you have answered your own questions. If you are high value she will gravitate to you and she will be scared to lose you because she knows you could have better women then her. Just never let her feel too comfortable, never let her completely have you. And don’t be afraid to walk away from her when she crosses the line. She will make it her mission to tame you. Just be conscious that you are untamable.

KirthWGersen · 2021-06-08T08:44:20+00:00

If you are focusing on her to the extent that you are looking for ways to manipulate her into seeking validation from you: you are putting her on a pedestal. Not in the same way as an admiring simp, but nonetheless, you are making her your mental point of origin.

What you really need to do is focus on whatever you want to do, how you want to live, how you want to form your life instead of allowing life to form you.

Then she may or may not seek validation from you. The chances are higher that she will. But you won't care either way.

MusicgoonV2 · 2021-06-08T11:17:59+00:00

Are you ready for the mind-bender?

So here's your problem. You're doing the exact same shit that you're trying to avoid doing.

By wanting her to seek validation from you, you are seeking validation from her. You are still making this girl the prize. It sounds like you give way too many fucks.

I go out with the sole purpose of having fun. If the girl isn't heavily invested, who cares? I still had fun and there are billions of other girls that will gladly bid for my time and attention.

Stop caring about outcome. If you don't find someone that lives up to your standards, keep looking until you do.

kdsflyfree · 2021-06-08T14:42:44+00:00

I would add that if the disparity in SMV is too great often a girl will think she doesn’t have a chance with you.

You still need to approach. Women will not directly approach you.

T00kTheRedPill · 2021-06-08T18:08:09+00:00

Care less about her than she does about you (and you don’t even have to be a dick headed RP meathead when doing it).

Title	Making Her Seek My Validation
Author	Savings-Paramedic-67
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	June 8, 2021 7:30 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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