Making that first move

RemyPrice · 2015-07-31T18:12:28+00:00

Fuck her right in the pussy!

cmiovino · 2015-07-31T17:43:15+00:00

I always (and still do to some extent) have issues with making the first move. This is what helped me the most:

Start the absolute first time you guys meetup. Literally, within the first 3 seconds. Hug, whatever. Immediately go for the hand next to lead her to where you are going. Then escalate from there. Remember, hands, arms, shoulders, legs, hips, finally face/hair, etc. In that order as time progresses.

My sticking point was I always didn't start off physical from the start, so then I sat there waiting for the right time to take her hand, touch her, etc... and the magical moment never came. It was much better getting the ball rolling from the start.

Thes3days · 2015-07-31T18:09:56+00:00

Yesterday I had two rounds of beer with a girl, a 7 if i had to rate her. After I finished my 2nd beer (wich she paid for) I went to the bathroom. When I came back out, I went to where she was sitting bent forward and kissed her without saying anything. I went for it because she seemed to be in a good mood and was still hanging around.

An hour later I'm fucking her in my bed. Kino was minimal during date, a few touches here and there when it seemed natural.

Guide: just make your move at some point. You'll known if it's a definite no-no. Otherwise; don't be scurrrd.

btharmony · 2015-07-31T17:53:57+00:00

I'm terrible with this myself, but I was in your situation few days ago. Finally went out with a girl after ages. Was waiting with her in my car and I didn't know what to do because she wasnt giving me any signs. (I'm new and inexperienced to TRP). All it takes is a pause in your head then execute. Say something in your head like "Okay gotta do this exactly now or never" then look her in the eyes and go in for a kiss. In my situation, she kissed me back instantly and was more into it then me.

Just remember, she's just as horny as you. Maybe that helps

Zunscriii · 2015-07-31T17:37:58+00:00

Don't be a pussy. It's simplistic advice but I know I need to hear it sometimes.

throw_em_all · 2015-07-31T17:40:06+00:00

Decent amount of kino through the night, when you decide to pull the trigger stand real close, look her in the eyes and at her lips, gently grab her chin/side and go for it.

FrameWalker · 2015-07-31T18:23:03+00:00

Don't sweat it this is the first of many. On a date this week I spilled my beer everywhere clumsily and still closed. I also asked a rude question on the level of his your mom of her mom was dead.

If you feel comfortable so will she.

MUTHAFATHAGENTLEMAN · 2015-07-31T20:37:12+00:00

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blacwidonsfw · 2015-07-31T21:17:17+00:00

my friend swears by the "chin move". when you are sitting next to her, stare deeply in her eyes, and when she glances at you- grab her chin semi-gentley with your index finger and turn her face to yours and kiss her. if she reciprocates pump it up a level by grabbing her neck and squeezing. this will give her chills and make her feel like shes in the notebook.

i must confess i have used this move a lot.

jkonrad · 2015-08-01T01:03:57+00:00

Jesus fuck man you just kiss her. Wait for a good moment but it doesn't have to be a romantic, candle fucking light moment. It could be a pause in the conversation where you hold her eye a little longer. It could be when you're playing darts. Wait until a moment when she is smiling at you, or looking at you in a positive way, then you lean in, pause to make sure she isn't pulling away, then kiss her.

There are three eventualities here. Either she will 1 kiss you back. Good! 2 Accept the kiss but not excitedly. Good! 3 Take offense. Reconsider! Reassess! End the date if there's no future kissing to be had. Be polite but just leave. Time is valuable.

What happened to society when I wasn't looking that boys forgot how to kiss a girl? I snuck my first kiss in in first grade, I still remember her name and I'm 44 - Tonya. Do you think the girl is going to initiate the first kiss? No! Possible but highly unlikely. Jesus fucking shit man.

MMABouncer · 2015-07-31T23:32:07+00:00

I ask if I can kiss them as soon as I meet them. When they say no, I pout while pretending to be interested in what she says. When I do speak, I tell her how I support womens rights...... Ok. I have to stop. My sides are hurting.

Title	Making that first move
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Date	July 31, 2015 5:26 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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