I am young, and with my current LTR i lost my virginity. Today she asked me if she was my first. I said you were my first that day lol. She still persisted although i was avoiding to answer and changing the subject and she got angry. I didn't entertain her behaviour and sent her home. Apparently she had some sort of negative "experience" before where a guy forced her to have sex, not exactly rape because he was her boyfriend and she didn't report him to the police lol but she potrays it as very traumatic and negative. She told me about this and now uses it as leverage saying " i told you about my worst experinces nobody knows about but you cannot answer a simple yes/no question" I think the best way to continue is to ignore her, but i need her help for something so i ask her questions frequently. What do i do? Also, mutual friends of ours know that she is my first so im sure she knows as well but is just testing.