"Maybe"

holddadoorhodor · 2020-05-08T04:09:32+00:00

Maybe=no

From here on out soft next until she reaches out and at that point only text for logistics. You'll know if she's actually interested very soon if you do this.

TrppyRed · 2020-05-08T05:31:22+00:00

You've put yourself in a bad spot here but I'm gonna disagree with the majority here and take her "hmmm maybe maybe" as more of a shit test than a rejection. It's definitely not a good sign but you might be able to save the close if you keep a strong frame.

"Are we still on for tomorrow?" is signaling to her a lack of confidence in your own ability to close.

So if I were you I'd hit her with a simple "I'll meet you there/pick you up at XX:00". Whether she responds to this or not doesn't matter. Do not text her at all until 40 minutes before the date with "Running a few minutes late, be there at XX:10" if she doesn't respond to this then she's probably flaking.

Don't send day-before (re)confirmation texts, they come off as weak.

Read Mr.V's Guide to Texting Girls

audiotrack · 2020-05-08T04:59:02+00:00

Dude do you have any sense of humour. It was a tease. Or you can hard next like a pussy.

Darkmegax0 · 2020-05-08T04:54:31+00:00

peakymann · 2020-05-08T04:55:09+00:00

maybe you should stop talking to the bitch

Noodlesoupe2 · 2020-05-08T05:45:49+00:00

“I don’t do maybes” sounds butthurt. Try “you got something better to do?” Shes either joking or disinterested and her response will tell.

Asphyz · 2020-05-08T07:15:17+00:00

You’re over thinking this. Just tell her to let you know. If she reaches out she’s into you - If she lets you know on the day just say you’ve made other plans and can’t see her now. Don’t try and rearrange, if she’s into she will offer a new date; you’re good. If she doesn’t she’s not into you. Move on

RedRiver0415 · 2020-05-08T10:24:02+00:00

KillYourInnerLoser · 2020-05-08T11:05:43+00:00

Maybe is almost always a "no". What you wrote is great - "I don't do maybes. Yes or no?"

Read this by mark manson:

Fuck Yes or No

-Andy

PerformanceFitness · 2020-05-08T11:16:50+00:00

By asking “are we still on” you’re making it pretty clear to her you’re insecure, hesitant and lack confidence in these scenarios. She may also assume you’re asking because you’ve had bitches flake on you before, unfortunately lowering your SMV in her eyes.

Next time, go with something like “I’ll meet you at X location at X time”. It shows far more assertiveness and confidence.

Don’t stress it though bro, she’s probably shit testing just play it cool and if she’s still being a pain sack it off cos she ain’t worth it.

j0hnNM94 · 2020-05-08T04:23:51+00:00

Hard next.

Title	"Maybe"
Author	Rektai
Upvotes	4
Comments	23
Date	May 8, 2020 4:07 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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