My girlfriend has borderline

Terdmuffin · 2019-02-18T04:25:38+00:00

"My ex girlfriend has borderline"

Come on now, man. If she has a mental illness whatre you doing?

CharlesChadworth · 2019-02-18T04:22:04+00:00

Ex gf had a compulsive disorder of some sort and BPD. Dated for 3 months, showed signs of instability. I.e tatts spontaneously + yolo attitude in life + seeking validation everywhere.

I wasn't going to wait around for her to say "oh I was fucked by trevor. It was a spur of the moment thing"

Dumped her ass asap. Mental illness = GTFO

VandalRP · 2019-02-18T05:09:23+00:00

Demote her to a plate. If you stay with her you will be shit tested relentlessly and your relationship will be nothing more than an emotional rollercoaster.

If you decide to stay with her for whatever reason (which is ill advised) you are going to have to make sure she does 100% of the chasing, and give her a moderate amount of attention, before randomly withdrawing it(try not to be predictable). These girls tend to have a fear of abandonment and a love for drama, so this will naturally keep her hooked, and on her toes.

Girls with BPD also tend to get very sexual extremely fast, but again it's not worth it. I would either plate her or hard next her immediately. You have been warned.

SoloQueueXL · 2019-02-19T01:34:04+00:00

All women have BPD lol

mrmaldoror · 2019-02-18T04:45:00+00:00

I tell all crazy women that I would never date them very early into making acquaintance.

ArchsofArch · 2019-02-18T08:39:28+00:00

Girls like that are addicted to getting attention, or baiting validation out of you. If you like her, keep her. If you don't like her, don't keep her.

Title	My girlfriend has borderline
Author	tinyredline
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	February 18, 2019 4:09 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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