N count

MrEiffel · 2017-03-09T11:58:49+00:00

A few things:

Learn how to bloody write in proper paragraphs, a wall of text is painful to read.
Any woman that cheerfully discloses how many times she got fucked is, by definition, a slut.
Do not ever have a relationship with a slut. They exist merely as pussy with life support, use them for fun & your sexual needs.
If you ask how many you fucked, just deflect with "A village", "I stopped counting a while ago", "666" etc..

Willem_Dafuq · 2017-03-09T11:26:59+00:00

Never in the history of mankind has a relationship been put it in a stronger position after both parties disclose their N counts. Stay silent on yours, have her stay silent and you'll be alright

quicklogaccount · 2017-03-09T12:48:59+00:00

I wrote about it on the weekend.
How game savvy are you now? Done your reading already?

Why:
The vast majority of women think men value in them the same things they value in men. No real empathy. And you can gender bend and expand this for a lot of things besides that.
So basically what these girls are doing is gaming you by giving you two dhvs. Sex positivity and strong pre selection.

Is it ok to LTR them?
It's probably ok for seasoned men, not for noobs. This behavior has a knack to cause insane damage in these women's partners, through various mechanisms. I LTRd one of these chicks, my second partner, and damn, don't get me started. It sucked.

Do these women change?
They can. Many women learn that what attracts men in themselves isn't the same stuff that attracts them in men, so they shut the fuck up. Many others bump into a seasoned guy who leads a decent relationship despite of their lack of empathy.

Whoever has the highest N count can basically say I can leave you whenever I want and get someone better. Does that sound right?

Not really. You're thinking as a man.
She's hypergamous. If she could do better she wouldn't give you the chance. If you're under her expectations she won't go on a second date. She is gaming you with moves that were used and worked on her. Just that. Her idea isn't "I'm superior because I seduced more people". It's more like "Ok, that guy is seriously hot, how do I impress him? Oh, well, I know I'm hot, I can let him know that".
The correct version of that line is "who ever cares less has the most power in the relationship", and caring isn't related to the count. It's related (not defined by) abundance. She has abundance though.
Abundance is NON NEGOTIABLE. Don't go NEAR exclusivity and don't fucking bond before you have it WELL settled.

Is this the right thing to do?

Not by far.
Don't be insecure about sex. More experienced women know how to enjoy themselves, they've been doing it for a while. Just make sure that you cum, don't be stealth about it, and if she didn't, finger or go down on her. Telling her she's fucking hot as she's naked is easy and works too.
All in all, think it like this. If she's on a date with you, she's attracted. Just escalate, make out, and you're bound to be n+1 soon.

Now, how come the SAME line is knocking you down repeatedly?
Memorize some shit to say when it comes. On your age range you're bound to get it.
"Multiple, as in, at the same time? Yes We DO need to hang more. No. We should invite your girl friend."
"Really? I don't think we'll work out. I'm saving myself for marriage with Christ. Damn, did that come out gay?"
Count fingers for a while, look around, maybe ask her "what does it count?", get an answer, count fingers again "One, counting you!" and laugh.

BullshittingNonsense · 2017-03-09T13:18:29+00:00

Never care what others think about your N count or anything for that matter. NEVER.

Title	N count
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Date	March 9, 2017 9:29 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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