Need Advice for Continuing Conversation

FereallyRed · 2019-07-23T19:59:50+00:00

That's a "no" with no reschedule attempt in womanese.

In online dating, that means she wants to chat more.

So you say "no" in manspeak. Next.

Stop giving her validation and stop bowing to her attempts at making you qualify yourself, stop conversing with her because at this point you're giving away your time and attention to a woman who has rejected you without even knowing you.

Don't play her game.

You know the best way to get to know someone? You go meet them. Anyone who doesn't understand this is just sucking up your time.

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2019-07-23T18:48:04+00:00

How do you know she isnt bleeding out of her pussy and wants to soak that shit in a bath for a few hours. Or she's a total freak slut and has a unitary track infection on that day. Or she has crones and has pea soup oozing out of her ass atm. Or her father has elsshymers or hes an alcoholic and she just dealt with a situation that emotionally charged.

All of that you would never discuss with a new potential sex partner. A lame boilerplate reply like "it's to early" is what you get.

Most things in this world are not about you.

Pick one of thoes things I listed at the start and go with it. Forget about this whole interaction and reset and try again later.

hoSpanky · 2019-07-23T18:38:55+00:00

Don't focus in on her, move on mentally, but keep in touch. Try to spend more time building rapport, maybe lighten the conversation a bit, but subtly let her know that just because she denied you doesn't mean your train isn't still going. Worst thing you could do now is to go all in, pulling back would help. She should feel like she missed an opportunity

ATRP2019 · 2019-07-23T18:42:00+00:00

If she's hot then put some work into the conversation. Over 1-2 days max, maybe 10-20 messages.

If she's ugly or average, just move on. It's a numbers game and you don't have time to waste on mediocrity right?

embracingtheredpill · 2019-07-23T19:10:30+00:00

"Ah well. Would you rather be too early or too late?" + "I'm a limited period offer"

Title	Need Advice for Continuing Conversation
Author	thenewmanintown
Upvotes	5
Comments	11
Date	July 23, 2019 6:27 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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