need help overcoming Beta fetishes

pinstrap · 2015-07-05T23:51:14+00:00

Continue to live a RP lifestyle and the fetishes will dissipate.

throwaway-aa2 · 2015-07-06T02:46:18+00:00

I explain it like this: whether you have a positive or negative experience with women, you still are going to be sexually attracted to them. If you grow up a loser and shunned by women, your experience to women as far as your sexuality and how they react is generally negative. As this is your only association, you will get off to that as you don't really KNOW any other way to associate with a woman (or any other way is alien).

Once you start having dominant relationships, TRUST ME. It'll go away quickly. You'll still like the dominance factor you witnessed in femdom, the only difference is that you'll be the one doing it now and she'll be the one being humiliated. So it's not too far of a cry from what you have now, the roles will just switch. I used to like the idea of being humiliated many years ago... I still like the idea of humiliation, but now I like witnessing someone else get humiliated and I get to do it.

Don't try to distance yourself away from it intellectually, that's not how it works and will exacerbate it. Just watch what you want to watch but every time you do it just acknowledge WHY you want to watch it (aka your relationships with women so far in your life). Then change your relationships and start to have good sex while being dominant, and it'll start switching for you automatically.

machimus · 2015-07-06T00:05:25+00:00

You need to get to the root of why these things turn you on. Don't try to rationalize that it's like a disease, where that's just how life is and you have to deal with it. You feel this way for a reason.

redpillexplainsit · 2015-07-06T00:44:51+00:00

If you're into cuckolding, maybe you should try being the bull.

Asoka11111 · 2015-07-06T01:42:40+00:00

Maybe try the Sex God Method?

Title	need help overcoming Beta fetishes
Author	TheTwoPumpMan
Upvotes	0
Comments	13
Date	July 5, 2015 11:33 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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