I'll try to make this quick,

-Met a girl through a mutual friend

-hung out with our mutual friend group once a week for about a month

-learns she has a bf

-also learn that she loves male attention (just general awareness / talking with her, she fits the profile of someone NOT to LTR)

-hang out one on one with her last week and she's flirting with me and we are out till 1 am (went to a hookah bar / walked around a park a bit)

-everytime she brought up her BF (long distance BF) I quickly changed the subject, but I got everything I needed info wise about him. In a nutshell he barely gives her attention (LDR, we live in NY and her BF is at university/working in SC) and she's hanging out with other males until 1 am...that relationship isn't going anywhere. IMO. She even said that she wishes she could flirt with one of our other mutual friends ( my cousin! Hah.... Either this was her attempt to make me jealous or I've become an orbiter! drum roll) but she can't cause she's in a relationship.

So anyways she's been hitting me up a lot recently via messaging / snapchat and I'm not trying to invest to much in this girl because she craves male attention and has many orbiters. 2 much competition really. The fact that I'm ignoring her messages / snapchats might be why she keeps trying to talk to me (she's probably so used to never being ignored..)

Anyways she drunk texts today saying basically that she doesn't think her BF loves her as much as she does and that she's a nobody and blah blah blah..

My responses where once again to get off the BF subject, and quickly end the convo saying "your drunk, don't worry about it get some sleep"

She responds with "no I'm not that drunk!" And I stop messaging from there.

Her texts were very sporadic / misspelled, she was clearly drunk. She had been snapchatting a few hours before of her drinking for the 4th.

My question is what's really going on here? I kinda have a few ideas, HOWEVER I know she is a typical AWALT and probably texted 10 other guys about her "problem" about her BF since I stopped messaging her.

I could also just be another one of her orbiters in her eyes, and I'm trying to frame myself NOT in that position, might be 2 late. I could already be her emotional tampon. Hopefully that's not the case, I've done a lot of TRP tactics on her / and have essentially ignored all of her complaints / not given her BF advice / shoo'ed her away tonight when she drunk texted me.

I'll hang out with her again and if I get orbiter vibes I will just hard next. This girl is NOT someone I would be-friend and be her tampon / LTR. Plate is the one and only way with this specific girl

Disclaimer : she's a 5/10, 6/10 max.