Need some honest advice

red_philosopher · 2019-08-17T13:22:27+00:00

There isn't even a question.

RedSkeller · 2019-08-17T13:42:26+00:00

I realize now the only thing I want in life is this guy.

Tell me more Sally McHypergamy

I"m 46.

The wall came and went, you've had more times at bat to make this work and now, at the ripe age of 46, this guy is amazing and all you want? Maybe for a few months until you get bored and try to trade up like you always do

He's got a serious girlfriend who's 36 and a side ho who's 22. He's in my opinion like an "8" and as for his girls one is a 7 and a 9

Guessing the dude is attractive, has options, which makes him even more attractive

I'd be a 5

Either you are exaggerating, low self esteem or you're actually a 5. All you can hope is that you're less crazy than the attractive women in his life and he decides to settle down for a bit because you're not annoying.

L3onard3 · 2019-08-17T13:33:42+00:00

Not going to happen...Your time has come and gone. But I’m sure you made the most of it ;)

Lefeudufou · 2019-08-17T13:56:49+00:00

Being alone doesn't suck as much as being a side ho.

Here's the problem, I realize now the only thing I want in life is this guy.

So, what will it be ?

Cody_Silver · 2019-08-17T14:28:12+00:00

This guy sounds very charitable. Try being his side girl and out do the other women. Find out what his fantasies are and jump in. Compete for him outside the bedroom as well.

Be willing to bring him and his side ho breakfast in bed? Spank her when she does something wrong? Clean his house in lingerie.? Whatever he is into. How many guys really turn your crank like this guy?

You must have some redeeming qualities if he is willing to drop his side ho standard by 2 points.

If you aren’t willing to go for this guy, you can keep numbing the pain with other men. I am sure at 46, you know the drill. BTW, I am in my 50s, just so you know I am talking from relevance, context, and not some 12 yo pontificating.

Life is getting shorter everyday. I say go for it. It will be better to regret it, than wishing you did it when you are on the respirator thinking about all the things you wished you had done before it was too late.

Are you in menopause heat right now?

Youngadult26advice · 2019-08-18T16:22:42+00:00

You sound like a loser trying to catch another loser lol

Marie_1986 · 2019-08-17T13:50:48+00:00

Girlfriend! Go out and better yourself. Read some self help books, go to the gym, get Botox become more feminine. Basically have the same TRP mentality as men. I’m not saying to act on it as much as they do but having options is always good and makes you feel better although you need to feel 100% about yourself first! There is such things as Alpha females, as much as men don’t want to admit it 😎

Title	Need some honest advice
Author	tempuserthrowaway5
Upvotes	0
Comments	36
Date	August 17, 2019 12:44 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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